Suggestions please !

1. Is there video on hair oil massage on web.. Or is there anyone who can tape and share it. Back in India, I used to visit parlors to get my head massaged with oil. When they did it it was so nice... Also another person can apply pressure better than you can do on your own. So what do you all do ladies ?

2. My hair is dry and semi curly. So I was thinking about deep conditoning it. Any suggestions for products ? I prefer ones without too much chemical. Mild ones are needed..

3. I have a curler. Bought it in an impulse and have no idea how to use it...Want to use it once in a month. I know, hot irons or curlers are never safe, but if I use it once in a month it should be okay I think. Any suggestions again ? Also if someone is using it, please suggest me styles....Bored with my ponytail..and banana clips. How about sharing some photos of basic hair styles ?

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This is what I do,boil coconut oil with curry leaves and amla.let it become luke warm.Apply this nicely to ur scalp.Ohhh...the feel is so relaxing.U should experience it to believe!!! U can feel the head becoming cool.
U can leave this oil in ur hair over night.
In the morning mix henna + curds+ lemon juice + coffee powder(1/2 spoon).
Add little water to get to the correct consistency.Apply this paste to ur hair and scalp and leave it for 2 hrs.
Wash ur hair with hot or warm water depending on weather.
See the difference.U feel so lighted headed and relaxed and ur hair looks great!!!
Let me know if u were able to try it out and how it felt.
I have no idea abt the curlers...