Please Suggest me..

Hi all,
When i log in to IL...I really feel relaxed bcoz i get most of my answers from here..
But,still I have got a problem and am not finding any solution,plz help me..
I am married for 2 years and 4 months but,still not able to conceive.
I had block in the fallopian tube,so got surgery in Jan.
Doctors did HSG,Laproscopy and they could able to remove block from right tube,but not the left one...They said its ok to conceive normally...
But,its been six months after the surgery and still I am unable to conceive..
My husband is so cooperative that now I am feeling guilty of myself..
and We both are not intersted in sex too as i get depressed after getting my periods.
He does not like to go for IVF..SO,i really dont know what to do now...
My in laws are waiting for the good news as they are unaware of my situation.
Plz suggest me

Hi Vijilaxmi

Sorry to hear about your situation, but don't worry as it is just a matter of time before you conceive. With all the advancements in the medical field I am sure you will get pregnant. The best approach is to have a positive one. Try to deal with it rather than letting it upset you. And because you have an understanding husband you are already on your way ! Read romance novels (Silhouettes or M&B's) and try to cherish these times that you have with your husband. Once you have a child, believe me you wont get that kind of time even if you want to. You can only get pregnant if you spend quality time with your husband. It is all about making love and not just having sex ! Your child would be your creation of love !

First try to do things that make you happy. Listen to music, read books, make handicrafts, enrol in a course... there is so much to do !

I often used to get mood swings and having Evening Primrose Oil capsules have helped a lot. Eat healthy food and lots of fruits and vegetables, be cheerful and pray to God and everything will be fine.

Hi Mukhilganesh...

Thanx alot for the suggestion...
I hope I will b ok after somedays.....
Eventhough I am working...
this stress will not forget to come into my mind everyday.

Now i am trying to get that positive attitude...

thanq again.

regards,
viji

vijayalaxmi, hi! have you ever taken clomid? it's an ovulation stimulating drug prescribed by doctors. i went through similar procedures like you, for my second pregnancy (first one we didn't have problems conceiving) and after doctor started me on clomid i concived quite fast. I am now 28 weeks pregnant! :)

ask your doctor to check if you are ovulating regularly...or buy those ovulation kits your self...maybe that is the problem...it was with me. Good luck and i hope you get your wish fullfiled soon!

Hi Lucullan....
Thank you very much for the support.
yaa,i had taken similar tabs before.it was clofert.
bt,took only once without docs prescription.
now i think i should go for ovulation detect.
even my doctor had given me 2 months of time and then for ovulation detectn.
but,i am feeling better than before now.
Its all bcoz of ILs/ur supports.

Plz if u dont mind I need ur moral support,suggestions in future too.

Ragards,
viji