Thanks
miasen, but before marriage my son used to make the afternoon coffee for me and my DH too.But the thing is that he never consumed coffee those days, but has started to, nowadays.Most important...he is very particular about the taste,

whereas, the DIL is not fussy.
neha, as one experienced, I can tell you this....that, men..at least some... make a lot of effort to avoid chores

.For example, my DH. On days when I get up after 5.30, which is rare, I have seen DH stretching and straining for sometime,(sombal murikkaradhu),
because I wake up because of the racket he makes
and the moment I start brushing my teeth, he will start to get up, happy in the thought that he is going to have a hot cup of coffee, once he is out of the bath room.

I have even wondered whether he does these to wake me up!!