What do you think..?

Recently I read in couple of posts at indusladies a very interesting thing..some people believe that if we fear about a particular thing in life constantly, in future that fear becomes a reality..it really made me think..what's your take on this..? please share your thoughts here.

Originally Posted by swapna15

Recently I read in couple of posts at indusladies a very interesting thing..some people believe that if we fear about a particular thing in life constantly, in future that fear becomes a reality..it really made me think..what's your take on this..? please share your thoughts here.

Hmmmm.....

Some may agree some maynot. But I think it's true.

For me I guess the fear would be "all forms of separation" ~~ estrangement-detachment-isolation-death too ......... I am a "people person"!

Swapna, this applies on the positive side as well and it is called "the Power of Intention" - I believe we attract what we wish for. It has been a theory in ancient India as well where we believe in "Thatasthu GODS" - my mom would always say, there are Gods always saying "So shall it be" and encouraged us to have positive thoughts. In the Western world, famous personalities like Rhonda Bryne, Dr.Dyer all speak of this. You can read their books "The Secrets (also DVD is real good)" and "the Power of Intention" respectively and get more 'enlightened' about it.

So I do believe - what we are is partly because of what we think.

"We are what we think,all that we are rises with our thoughts, with our thoughts we make the world"
have you watched THE SECRET? watch it. if you are thinking a negative thought it will happen becasue you are focusing so hard on it and it willbecome areality, but if you a focusing on something good a positive thought it will becaome a reality.
We always let FEAR take over our mind. Never fear anything.
always have positive thoughts and we become what we think.

alpa

Originally Posted by swapna15

Recently I read in couple of posts at indusladies a very interesting thing..some people believe that if we fear about a particular thing in life constantly, in future that fear becomes a reality..it really made me think..what's your take on this..? please share your thoughts here.

I agree ..to some extent we can change our future by pouring in our positive/negative thoughts.

I always thought prayers were focussed on achieving what we want by concentrating all our positive energy and probably this is some realm in science which should be more explored.For me human brain is the most complex thing we have ever seen and there are so many facets of it yet to be unraveled.

-Sabitha

Thanks Justami, Alpa, Srama and Sabitha for sharing your thoughts here..Me too believe that there is some truth in this..but then this same theory should be applied on positive thinking too..there are people who desparetly want something in their life, for example if a kid is dying of some decease his/her parents want him/her to be alright, but it doesnt happen that way..they cant cure the kid with their intense wishes / thinking positively about his condition..isnt' it..?..

I agree Sabitha that human brain is such a complex thing..We really don't know much about our mind/ brain..

Regards
Swapna

THe HUman brain is Complex but we as humans have so many powerful energies that we don't know how to channel them. If any one of you have done VIPASSANA MEDIATATIn it will show you how powerful our human mind is.
If we all start to think positive and eliminate all negative thoughts from our minds and just show compassion to others we will be able to do so much good to others and our selves, our negative thinking will make us suffer but if we start our day with a positive thought and think positively than everything will fall into place

Like for example:- a person is always in debt and just thinking about it, he is channelling those negative thoughts and only negative things will happen, instead of him saying that a solution will help and everything will be ok than he will start to channel those positive thoughts and a positive result will come out of it.

i have tried using these techniques and it has helped me a lot.

give it a try.

alpa

Originally Posted by swapna15

Thanks Justami, Alpa, Srama and Sabitha for sharing your thoughts here..Me too believe that there is some truth in this..but then this same theory should be applied on positive thinking too..there are people who desparetly want something in their life, for example if a kid is dying of some decease his/her parents want him/her to be alright, but it doesnt happen that way..they cant cure the kid with their intense wishes / thinking positively about his condition..isnt' it..?..

I agree Sabitha that human brain is such a complex thing..We really don't know much about our mind/ brain..

Regards
Swapna

Very Good Dicussion, Girlssss !!

I do belv this is true.. It is all upto what you think in mind ! You fear something constantly and live in that forver.. some day you see it coming.. When there is someone who is always negative about every damn thing in their life.. we feel so uncomfortable to be around them !! I hate such people !! Somewhere you start thinking negative too.. I have seen a frend of mine who got so influenced by another's negative thoughts that she started suspecting everything her hubby did ! Her marriage had almost reachd seperation ! She realised just after one tight slap from her mommy and now they have a beautiful daughter and are so much in love !! For all wondering what happend to the negative friend of mine.. She got divorced !! You sow.. you reap !! :)

Thanks Alpa and Drpreethi for sharing your info here. Yes Alpa I have heard about Vipassyana, and would like to do it in future. I have always been very curious about these things and their benifits to our day to day living and our personality.

I too believe in the strength of positive thinking. I just wanted to know when we say that if we fear something or think about any particular issue in a negative way that fear becomes a reality, does that logic apply to positive thoughts as well. I think it should work the other way round as well.

Hmm.. interesting...

I always felt there is something above us that plans out everything.. Just by thinking positive or negative we cannot change what is destined to happen.

The thing is by being positive, you have a healthy life and more carefree..But by being negative, you stress yourself up and end up ruining not just your mind, but also others around you.

my 2c