Delhi Rape-- A stunned nation fights back

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  1. roshnic

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    Welcome to Rock Bottom. Breathe the air here, and you will smell the stinking breath of six drunken louts out to have fun. Watch what they do and you will watch the degenerates of the earth claiming their place at the hall of the infamous. Follow them and you will witness a sadistic orgy of unrelenting and ferocious brutality, let loose on a 23 year old bright medical student whose only crime was living in the pathetic environs of “modern” Delhi. On December 16, 2012, the girl was repeatedly raped, beaten, and tortured for over an hour in a moving van with tinted windows, while passing through several police check points with total immunity, and eventually thrown out mercilessly like a dead carcass to sleep the eternal sleep of death. The horrific saga even stung the frozen conscience of Delhi’s Sheila Dixit and the stoned administration of the Capital.

    The evil deed was so vile that even the Taliban seemed to look like angels. The very stones would have wept but the stooges of Satan were remorseless. As the girl fought for her life with multiple surgeries and lacerating intestines, people shook with fury and the simmering discontent of the crowds turned to boiling rage resulting in a tempest of protests all over the country. Spirited crowds in Hyderabad, Bangalore, Chennai, Bombay, Calcutta, Lucknow, Gwalior, Pune and several cities howled for punishment and deterrent laws. Finally, death left the shadows of immortality and stalked the brave girl claiming her in Singapore. That ended a worthy life whose slow motion slaughter will be forever etched in the collective conscious of a stunned nation.

    This is not the first time. In fact it is the 637th recorded case just in this year. The thorny path of the progressive woman is strewn with several epitaphs of horrific sexual violence. Recently, police pulled out the body of a 10-year-old girl who was gang-raped and murdered in Bihar’s Saharsa district. Another school girl raped by several men is in another hospital in Bihar fighting for her life. Very little has changed in the rape culture of India since Bhanwari Devi’s rape in 1992 or the turbulent rapes of the Bandit Queen. The Neanderthal man is alive and kicking and fighting with no holds barred the New Woman: cool, confident and living life on her own terms. The veneer of modernity that society wears is as thin as the muslin that fashions its garments. Beneath, the suave hypocrisy is a centuries’ old entrenched hierarchy, feudalistic and repressive, that does not hesitate to put the woman in her place. With little remorse, self-righteous men would use their tools of eve-teasing, harass pub-going women, direct lynch mobs on lovers or love marriages, or encourage the complicit police and the apathetic politicians in ensuring that the woman is kept dependent, backward and helpless. It is little wonder that the rapist begins his sordid story with justification that the victim must be punished for deviating from societal norms. In this particular case, the girl was raped because she was with a male friend.

    Adding to the stirring sounds of the morality men, are the enlightened politicians whose wondrous speech can be traced to the medieval ghetto. Abhijit Mukherjee, a pearl among his peers, made the earth shaking discovery that it was the “painted and dented” women who were in the forefront of street demonstrations. The congress president of Andhra Pradesh, Botcha Satyaranya, added to the prevailing wisdom by dismissing the rape as a “small incident”, and contributing his bit to civilization by a trivial explanation, “Freedom at midnight does not mean women roaming on the streets during late hours.” Sadly, the sound bites of the politician is not about expressing outrage or ensuring tough laws or calls to protect women, but about unwanted advice regarding controlling the activities of women.

    The low status of women in our society is the frozen monster that is responsible for the rape culture. From the portals of the fancy factories of Bollywood to the traditional bastions of the family, the script for women is set in concrete: she cannot visit discos, she cannot speak out, she cannot dress in a particularly attractive way, she cannot stay out late, and if she gets raped it is her fault. However, nothing is considered as wrong in a society where sons are worshipped and daughters are at the most tolerated, where daughters are killed in the wombs, or where dowry is demanded and given, where torture of the daughter-in-law is condoned, or where women are sold to the highest bidder to settle property issues. Moreover, the woman is taught not to get raped while the man receives no teaching regarding not to rape. A man is taught to be a good son, a good brother, a good friend, a good provider but never taught how to be a good husband. A woman’s happiness is at the bottom of a barrel where she can scrape as hard as she can to get certain bits of trash and claim it as her happiness.

    Needless to say, in such a progressive environment, it will be a miracle if the Women’s reservation bill will ever get passed, if the modern women will be appreciated for her contributions to Science, Philosophy, technology or law, or will she be eulogized only for being a good mother and an obedient bahu. Is the rise of women a threat or is it considered as progress? Upon such answers will hinge the fate of India. And such answers will determine if India will rise to glory or ride off into the sunset.

    The sad death of the 23 year old victim is only the tip of the iceberg of a huge mass of solidified archaic thinking. Her death has flashed a light on the corroding social structure of a traditional society that is built on the subjugation of women. If society’s keepers heed the light the shine will reflect back on a modern society built on equality, justice and merit. Else it will go the way of the Taliban, the morality police and the dregs of civilization with a fast expiring date.
     
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  2. crazywriter

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    Wonderful words, well expressed. Thanks for your opinion, OP. I would rather not comment on the issue, as my thoughts would not stop. I am not in a state of mind to make any comment.
     
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    Oh you missed the famous two liner of a woman in the helm, that a woman raped is more or less like a shredded cloth..and i am sure you can guess who it is..

    Oh roshni you should have waited for a few more months before you posted this post..you would have movie names, the election canvases, the speech and every other related stuff.

    The bottom line bitter truth is in a democratic country elected by(?) the common man(who is he) , we are not supposed to expect our representatives to BE with us.. but that does not mean they don't join condolences meetings and do appear to shed a few tears....

    A non-profit ngo has gone on record to say there is almost 18 rapes /day and very few come to the light.

    you just google on tribal rape, and you will be stunned to see the news that goes unnoticed on the third/fourth page farthest corners..

    We are a generation of people who do not want to help. it is not just india . though i do not want to name the country. i was glancing out of the windows, (i was in the 6th floor) and i had a view of the main road.. a few locals were chasing a lady ( a foreigner in that country) and she was running nude in broad daylight shouting for help, and let me tell you that no person came forward to help her..all of them were watching/ogling..


    We have a ratio parity(boy/girl) that is on the increase, i am so pained and am so scared to even think what would happen as the parity increases beyond. We used to have a sarcastic joke among us ladies when we were working that even if a mopstick worse a saree men are going to ogle and pinch...

    Sadly many parents have stopped watching the news or reading one, just to get into a illusion that everything is rosy.. they want the comfort of the illusion rather than the gory truth...

    I sadly am forced to concede no reservation or no upliftment is really going to help us unless we learnt to help ourselves..


    Let us learn that we are a very strong lot. A scorned women or a protective mother is a force to reckon. let us teach ourselves, we are stronger, we know to take care of ourselves, and let us ring the warning bells in the minds of abusers that we can tear them apart empty handed.
     
  4. SGBV

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    I just don't get it. May be I am different.
    In our country, there are a group of people (also I don't wanna name them), whom I will name selfish. They simply have a rather thick skin and stronger heart, which would never melt down for anything. They claim that they have seen and experienced so much; hence nothing in this world could be serious to them.

    Simply, if I wanna update my FB status on this Delhi gang rape or feel sympathy about that ill-fated girl (truly), the fellow community will bounce on me, saying " what was your feeling when war crimes happened in Sri Lanka in 2009'? - Come on... Just because you had a bad fate, and forced to go through a tragedy, doesn't mean you have to throw your heart out, and live like a Robot. Sympathy is kind of a feeling, that every human being must have... and YOU CAN BE SIMPLY NAMED AS EXCEPTIONS if you don't have sympathy over something of this sort - Delhi rape.

    Coming to your lines... The above community is just the minorities... less than a few hundreds or thousands of the entire country, those behave heartless for a reasonable reason (they say so). But not everyone.

    I have seen people of this generation, here and everywhere I traveled, that they want to help. Being a female, I can not simply watch and close my eyes/hearts when some brutal crime is going on. I am sure that I can not go in the middle like cinema Heros to save the victim, Coz I don't wanna kill myself in the middle of their fights. But I can simply call the Cops, or collect some hands to gang up and help...At least after the brutality occurred... I mean, just to save that life by taking her to the hospital immediately.

    I have seen in some places (rare though), that people don't wanna report, dont wanna be the witness, don't wanna take a lead to admit a road accident victim to the hospital even though he/she is fighting for their life with extreme pain. I or anyone who shares my views/heart can not avoid ourselves helping the ill fated people there.

    I've heard that people say that they think about "what will happen next"? I mean, the court hearing, revenge of the perpetrators, having to attend the police station several times etc...etc..., but how come you guys can think of all these while seeing a man/woman or a child in pain while fighting for their lives? How come you don't think of their relatives who might suffer throughout their lives if they lose these victims? And finally how come you don't think of the pleasure and appreciation that the victim, their family and the community that will pour on you for your timely help.. Isn't it like giving birth - i mean re birth to an already died person? Isn't it making you equal to a new mom?

    I just don't accept that this generation has no heart to help.. may be someone of somewhere... not all....
     
  5. Anitap

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    You have identified the problem.
     
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