Hi Asks,
I'm also in same stage.I came last May...now in August going to India to attend my BIL wedding..
As you said corals, pearls are cheap..for ladies that suite well .
For gents, if you are not particular that all the giftshould be same,can get webcam who has computers in their home...If in IT field you can get them USB, Hard drive...etc., which is cheap here than in India.
Let me tell mine, i got for my uncle and dad tools(sears)as they have mechanical shop, for my cousin, some sterling set, for my MIl and new SIL(wedding gift)planning to get pearls set from Edison.
For my Both BIL we got MP3 player and digital camera,brother - webcam.
Incommon for FIL, brother and BILs we got t-shirt in sale.
Instead of telling the gift is from U.S and getting in India doesn't seems to be a good idea. If any Diabetic elder, you can take Sugreefree(Equal).Orelse get lot of chococlates bags for all, get Gift from India,mentioning that you couldn't choose a perfect one due to lack of time,take them to a good restaruant enjoy the dinner with all together.
Even $shops help us sometime, we get lot many things as per Indian taste, you can get washing machine cover(homemakers), good learning books-kids(number, shape, size), definitely they are worth.With nice quality and print we are getting for 1$(Indian rupee41rs).
If i get some other apart from this, let me send you again.
Hope it would be helpful to you in some way.
Regards,
USHA.