My BF is cheating

I can't believe what a jerk he is. That day, I caught him chatting online with an unknown Russian girl and it was not a "friends" chat at all... They were having hot chat. When I asked him about it, he acted as if its no big deal.

He told me that its no big deal and I shouldn't over react. Am I over acting?

Why are you posting these 'sick' things here??

Hi,
You are not overreacting. What you did is right.

Best of Luck,
shravanicool

what's sick in the post..i don't understand

anyways !....it's okay to react that ways...as u've mentioned that it wasn't a normal chat...u do have reasons to react....

if u were found chatiing with any guy that ways...i m sure his reaction would be more than this..it's just that guys take women for granted

It is a big deal, its cheating...talk t him about it and if he still acts like there is nothing wrong with that then leave him...there is a better guy out there waiting for you

Sonya,

I think its cheating, but I am sure your bf won't admit it. He would say that when he didn't even see the girl, how is it cheating. Guys are sick that way...

I think you should tell him that what he did was Emotional Cheating and you are deeply hurt. If he doesn't stop, then you must tell him that you won't tolerate all this.

hot chat with another girl is not a big deal???? OMG. I cannot beleive how this guy is doing mistake and acting like he is right...

Let me tell you onething...Chat become very common these days...friendship is okay. i do have chat friends..but it should not cross the limit.

I feel that you are not over reacting...tell him that he is cheating you. if he is not ready to listen to you, then he is not your Mr. right guy.

Shiva

It is a big deal. Cheating is betrayal. Trust is the base of any relationship. So talk to him. He needs to come out clean.

Originally Posted by RanjaniPandey

Why are you posting these 'sick' things here??

Are u insane? Where is she supposed to open up and talk then?

Hi,
if he is cheating, then its a big deal and if he is doing this now then what would happen if you get married??? if he does not get hisact straight then it is better to leave him and move on, you will meet better guys than him, that means he cannot have open communication with you and in a relationship open ocmmunication is very important to make the base or hte foundation of the relationship strong.
hope it helps
love
alpa

Well I think I am in the minority here, but I don't see what's the big deal... Look, you will have to understand that he is a guy and guys do these kinds of things.

Just tell him that you are not comfortable with all this and he is got to stop that. Take it easy and don't over-react.