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Old 29th November 2008, 06:01 AM
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Hi friends

I don't know if this is the right section to talk about my concern if not i am sorry.

Today i called my cousin brother in India who told me a very bad news my uncle passed away this morning, he died after a very long illness and the members of my dad's side died this way, first the got sick , suffer from the this and died.

My uncle and I have both our love for good books. I will miss him a lot.

It may think also of my own death i am very scared of finishing like this.
What do you think guys?

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It is a coincidence and not a curse.So,dont worry too much .
It is natural to think of one's own mortality when someone's death stares you in the face.You can write a letter to your uncle's family and that will be therapeutic for you and help you deal with the loss and grief.
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Dear Huma,

I am sorry to to hear about your loss, i convey my condolences to you and your family

I am going to quote somethng please read through it and understand it

"WE ARE WHAT WE THINK, ALL THAT WE ARE RISES WITH OUR THOUGHTS WITH OUR THOUGHTS WE MAKE THE WORLD"- BY GAUTAMA BUDDHA

So my dear friend please do not think what you are thinking, be positive and remember the good moments you spent with your uncle.

Be strong.

Sending you a Big Hug

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Hi friends

I don't know if this is the right section to talk about my concern if not i am sorry.

Today i called my cousin brother in India who told me a very bad news my uncle passed away this morning, he died after a very long illness and the members of my dad's side died this way, first the got sick , suffer from the this and died.

My uncle and I have both our love for good books. I will miss him a lot.

It may think also of my own death i am very scared of finishing like this.
What do you think guys?

bye
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Dear Huma

When you say the family members of your Dad's side die this way, do you mean the men as well as the women?

Is it from the same illness or different illnesses?
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Huma dear,

First of all my condolences for the loss of your dear uncle..............

and then why do you think that way................one cannot find a reason for death, which is decided by God Almighty. so please dont think like that........be positive
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sorry to hear dear.if u r so worried,find the reason of such illness and make sure u r fit enough to fight against it.if u cant find reason for such illness,still make ur self healthy enough to fight all illness-good food ,xercise,yoga and friends will cur all illness.wish u to find all those plentyful in ur life
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