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When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friendship

Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by iyerviji, Nov 30, 2015.

  1. iyerviji

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    The best thing in life is to find someone,
    who knows all yours mistakes & weakness and still think that,
    You are complete and you are special .

    In life we meet so many people at so many places and become friends, with some only Hi, some talk only when they wish to , some come to us when they want help and only some become close to us. The ones who are close to us will appreciate us always, point out our mistakes, help us when we are in need, they dont see whether they are perfect but only want our friendship.

    When it hurts to look back, and you’re scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.​
    When you are up in life…Your friends get to know who you are….


    But When you are down in life…

    You get to know who your friends are…

    Our own mistakes we dont know but we are always ready to find others mistakes. But instead if we help them in telling them their mistake they will also correct themselves, thats a true friend. Instead some people will tell about their friends mistakes to others .

    6 wonderful quotes-thoughts on Friends and Friendship
    - A friend is like a mirror, reflecting back to you the very best of who you are.
    - Friends smooth out the bumps on the road of life
    - Friends help each other through the Big things but cherish together the little things
    - Special times with cherished friends are the treasures of the heart
    - Friends are the closest thing to angels this side of heaven
    - There is no greater blessing than a good friend – except a good friend who grows to be an old friend

    A Wonderful Story of Friendship & Values……

    A story tells that two friends were walking
    through the desert. During some
    point of the journey they had an argument, and
    one friend slapped the other one in the face.
    The one who got slapped was hurt,


    but without saying anything, wrote in the sand:
    TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
    SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.
    They kept on walking until they found an oasis,


    where they decided to take a bath. The one who
    had been slapped got stuck in the mire and
    started drowning, but the friend saved him.
    After he recovered from the near


    drowning, he wrote on a stone:
    TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.
    The friend who had slapped and
    saved his best friend asked him,


    “After I hurt you, you wrote in the
    sand and now, you write on a stone,
    why?” The other friend replied “When someone
    hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds
    of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone


    does something good for us, we must engrave
    it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.”
    LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND
    AND T O CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE.
    They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
    an hour to appreciate them,


    a day to love them,
    but then an entire life to forget them.
    Send this phrase to the people you’ll never
    forget. It’s a short message to let them
    know that you’ll never forget them.
    - MORAL -Do not value the THINGS you have in your life..But value WHO you have in your life!

















     
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    Re: When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friend

    Thanks @sangeethakripa dear for your first like
     
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    Re: When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friend

    Thanks Mami,
    Nice thread..
     
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    Re: When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friend

    yes maam its true and i too agree. but in today's fast moving life i rarely see this fast friend concept. i myself tried to find or become one but u know the selfish act, jealously, competition, comparison etc does not allow anyone to become one.
    very rarely u will find true and honest friend. my sad party uptill now in life is all upon whom i trusted and gave all my best turned to be jealous and ditched...:-(
     
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    Re: When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friend

    Thanks Vaidehi dear for the first feedback which made my day
     
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    Re: When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friend

    @twinklingstar dear you are right now a days its difficult to see fast friend concept. all are busy in their own world. Some are there no doubt. But true that some are selfish, jealous, etc. For our own satisfaction its better to be independent and not expect anything from friends. I feel its all because now a days all are busy and have some problem or other , so they think of only themselves. I have few who are really friendly
     
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    Re: When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friend

    Wow wonderful thread viji mam nice quotes and story
     
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    Re: When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friend

    Sudan dear glad to know you liked the thread and story, thanks
     
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    Re: When you are looking for a friend don’t look for perfection, just look for friend

    Hi Viji Maa @iyerviji :)
    nice story and quotes on friendship.I love above lines from your post.Thank you for sharing nice thoughts with us.
    Take care
    Latha
     
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    Thank you Latha dear, glad you liked the quotes
     

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