Second Chance To Relationship --sounds Great By Vini

Second Marriage is essential

It is seen more evidently that the younger generation is looking forward for a change in relationship. For which they are ready to go head to breaking up their marriage to get into another relationship. It is a marvelous thought. Especially it adds to the romance and hyped feeling of trying the same emotional highs the way we felt onset of the first one.

However the law of nature says what so up comes down…so this feeling will also be short lived, because we age, our partner ages. We are exposed to media, new fashion sense and modernization…god forbid out of the couple if this time we are the slow one to catch up with fashion and trends…we might be the one on our partner’s elimination list….

Yes it’s true. Do as you would be done by. If we treat our relationships like the passing weather, soon we will get the same response. It will be not long that there will be a ground of insecurity in the world around us. Like the west. They have long lost the security, trust, endurance and love in their relationships. All seems to be a business deal and material give and take understanding. We must not forget we are humans and someday we need a shoulder we really trust.

Aping the west is not answer at all times, we were good just by being us. If we check the trend of latest matrimonial, we find the foreigners are opting to have an Indian as a life partner. It is because Indians are looked at as people with values irrespective of caste or creed. Take the best from the west, but don’t put your integrity to test. Here we are trying new things that even the foreign country people are trying overcome.

We see people who have tried a change in their relationships in the past. They seem to be getting bored with the new ones pretty sooner than they expect. There may be times where new relations make sense or are essential. But that should not be a yardstick for the rest to move out of current relationships without giving your love a second chance. Only if we try forgiving and loving unconditionally. With no expectations from each other, the relationship that we hold in hand seems heaven.

Most of marriages start their trouble in first year. This is the phase in India in particular the family tries to influence the relationship. To add to the same friends have a say. The couple should have control on their minds and think they don’t know good things about their partner and that’s what they need to find. Oppose to get carried away with the comment and lay foundation for future turbulence.




by vini in msn it set me thinking so brought it here what are ur views on this sunkan