Does Soul Need A Mate By My Friend Indu

The word soul is very fascinating to me. To my understanding we meditate to find or experience our soul , then practice to merge our souls into God, that is nothingness or the light that is spread all over the Universe. To my understanding that’s what happens once the soul leaves this body.
( Help me if I am wrong ) Soul has no gender. It is always free , does not have any companions or mates hence it merges into nothingness or light! The mates, the friends the companions are all to this physical body which enjoys all the emotional relationships and until we find our selves free of all these relationships we can not experience the realization of our soul .
This is what my understanding is. When we come across the soul mate theory I am always confused..
Previously there were discussions about the soul mates and multiple soul mates in our blogs. We have discussions about the soul mates in my blog
Is it possible to have multiple soul mates

Still whenever I come across a poem , a blog about soul mate that triggers me to think about the soul mate theory . Then again my search to know more starts all over again.
If we experience that a person is our soul mate or if our soul finds its mate then both the souls must be above the worldly emotions and should never feel lonely.
In one of my blogs Rudra said
It has to do with our energetic constitution and how someone else can augment or dampen it.
It is also possible for that energetic compatibility to diminish as either person (or both) change energetically. Our energy is in a constant flux, as a result of our mental and physical states.
When I think on these lines , I wonder that it is possible to find a soul mate and to loose them too.
So the question is if our soul finds the soul mate, then both the souls are mates for ever . Or only for some time?
We experience emotional bonding with some people as soon as we meet them in life for the first time or many times in this virtual world.
What are the reasons for this emotional attachment?
Can we say that people with whom we experience this connection are our soul mates?

We believe that the soul has no gender . It comes into this world all alone and leaves the world without any companion. If that is so what is the purpose of the soul mate. Is the soul really needs a mate?
Hope all of you share your thoughts on this.

Indu


BROUGHT TO YOU BY SUNKAN

Hmm.... this post has lots of questions and I envy Sunkan for the wise friends you have. They are wondeful writers on many niche areas. You have put me on cross roads by asking so many questions opening my mind to think in multile dimension. I feel I was wrong in believeing I have a couple of soul mates and dictionaries mean it differently "somebody with whom somebody else naturally shares deep feelings and attitudes" . At this moment my intension is to bring this post floating to make more people read and key in their answers to the questions asked. I need to recursively analyse it in the dimension you have projected in the post to reply. So give me time to do that.

I again thank you and sunkan for bringing this post to the forum

Cheers,

Originally Posted by svrlax

Hmm.... this post has lots of questions and I envy Sunkan for the wise friends you have. They are wondeful writers on many niche areas. You have put me on cross roads by asking so many questions opening my mind to think in multile dimension. I feel I was wrong in believeing I have a couple of soul mates and dictionaries mean it differently "somebody with whom somebody else naturally shares deep feelings and attitudes" . At this moment my intension is to bring this post floating to make more people read and key in their answers to the questions asked. I need to recursively analyse it in the dimension you have projected in the post to reply. So give me time to do that.

I again thank you and sunkan for bringing this post to the forum

Cheers,

dear svrlax,
i thought i made a mistake bringing it here, yes i know it is a heavy topic and very few takers, but actually if one put their mind into this,
it would blow up and make u sit up and think, the writer is a very famous blogger just trying to see the effect of her writing here so that i can ask her to come see the comments and may be write slowly u c..ya some exposures in life are blasting and set u thinking all the time...indu is a great personality i think of telugu origin..sunkan

Hi,
Good Discussion, I am not sure about what a soul means, in simple terms, I thought soul was our innate goodness or godliness energy present in every one of us.Soul mate is a person, with whom you have a feeling of oneness,with whom we connect on all levels, why we feel that way is whole another discussion.Can I see a connection between soul and soulmate, don't know. If soul is something that was described in the post,we should not diffrenciate between people, the soul should be abe to look everyone in the same light. But what prompted me to write were the following lines : The mates, the friends the companions are all to this physical body which enjoys all the emotional relationships and until we find our selves free of all these relationships we can not experience the realization of our soul .

I think one can realise the soul, only through relationship.Our life is empty, without relationship, emotional or carefree.These our my humble thoughts.

Nivedha.

Originally Posted by nivedha

Hi,
Good Discussion, I am not sure about what a soul means, in simple terms, I thought soul was our innate goodness or godliness energy present in every one of us.Soul mate is a person, with whom you have a feeling of oneness,with whom we connect on all levels, why we feel that way is whole another discussion.Can I see a connection between soul and soulmate, don't know. If soul is something that was described in the post,we should not diffrenciate between people, the soul should be abe to look everyone in the same light. But what prompted me to write were the following lines : The mates, the friends the companions are all to this physical body which enjoys all the emotional relationships and until we find our selves free of all these relationships we can not experience the realization of our soul .

I think one can realise the soul, only through relationship.Our life is empty, without relationship, emotional or carefree.These our my humble thoughts.

Nivedha.

Thanku nivedha for your input here, even i had many confusions so brought it over to see how u all feel about this article, something different about souls already knowing their mate, my view is soul is an identity which we always address will meet its mate may be after death, or so..but here it may take sometime to settle in mind..sunkan