True Happiness

Really Nice,

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24
hours in a day are not enough, just remember the mayonnaise jar and
the coffee.

A philosophy professor stood before his class and had some items in
front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very
large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf
balls.

He asked the students if the jar was full.

They agreed it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles
and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar slightly. The pebbles
rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the
students if the jar was full.

They agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and
poured it into the jar. Of course the sand filled up everything else.

He asked once more if the jar was full.

The students responded with a unanimous "YES". The professor then
produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the
entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space
between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now" said the professor, as the laughter subsided, " I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life.

The golf balls are the important things. Your family, your children,
your health, your friends and your favorite passions...things that if
everything else is lost and only they remained, your life would
still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your
house, and your car.

The sand is everything else - the small stuff.

If you put the sand into the jar first, " he continued, "There is no
room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If
you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never
have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play
with your children. Take time to get a medical check up. Take your
partner out to dinner. Play another 18 holes. There will always be
time to clean the house and fix the screen door. Take care of the golf
balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The
rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and asked what the coffee
represented. The professor smiled. " I'm glad you asked, " he said.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a cup of coffee with a friend.

DSRINI