yes if we go to hostel we will miss DH and so will DH - that what is what I want to acheive !!
DH can keep visiting us everyday and buy us fruits, chocos, and all sorts of gifts everyday when they visit us in the evening....
I keep doing all things for him at home and he is busy with work that there is no quality time at home...
This way they will also miss us during the day and there were will more love and fondness for each other....
Since it is a hostel and we can opt out of this place even during the preg term when DH himself starts missing me... by then i will be past the first trimester and things will be easy during the rest of the days !!