Worried on treatments!!

Hi Pray4me,
IVF child is like normal other child. If you give the right nutrition, the baby will looks exactly same as naturally conceived.

IVF centers are not supposed to use other eggs or sperms unless you approved it. If and when you are going for IVF, talk to them clearly on this and get the confidence. This part has to come from the couple and the ivf center.

Its better to handle stress well or learn to control stress before going to IVF. IVF meds might cause turbulence to your hormones and you need to handle it with your dh support and others.

Confidentiality of the details of your treatment need to charted out between you and clinic. There are ways it can be known for an intelligent person whatever you do.

I hope i have covered all your doubts. No questions are silly. You should have clear mind before taking up anything.
Take care.