IVF1 Failed- Need Advice on treatment and doctor

Hi All,

I have been TTC for the past 3.5 years. I am 31 and my husband is 35years old. Was earlier diagnosed with PCOS but was recently told that i do not have PCOS!! I was earlier taking metformin and other tablets but am off all of those.

I and my husband individually are healthy. My HSG, Sono test, blood profile , hormone test is all normal. My husbands sperm count and motility is also normal.

We tried concieving normally and then did 4 unsuccessful IUIs. I normally do ovulate on my own.. in some of the IUI cases the doctor did not give me the HCG shot as i was ovulating on my own.

Anyways after unsuccessful IUIs the doctor recommended me to go for IVF. My AMH score is also good. I did the IVF procedure.. 15 eggs were identified but only 8 were retrieved. Out of the 8 3 were immature follicles so only 5 were left which were fertilized through ICSI. Post ICSI 3 of the eggs were successfully fertilized. Of the 3 2 were grade 1 and 1 was grade 2. I had a 3 day transfer where the eggs had cleaved to 10 cell ( 2 of them) and 8 cell (1 of them). With a great uterus lining and good eggs my doctor was very positive.. but unfortunately it was unsuccessful.

Now i am clueless what to do.. the whole process is very stessful emotionally, physically and mentally. We were in hyderabad and now have decided to move to Bangalore. I need your help with :
1. Advice on should i try another round of IVF or should i just go for adoption. How many of you were unsuccessful in the first cycle but were successful in the 2nd or 3rd cycles?
2. Can you advise some good hospitals/Doctors in Bangalore . I will be living in HRBR Layout/Kamanahalli/Kalyan Nagar area.

I am heartbroken and at this point very angry with god and myself for not making this successful

Thanks in advance,

 

Hi Radha, thanks for the response and the encouragement... Hearing such stories I feel there is still hope!!! But hats off to you to go through 4 cycles !! I almost went into depression after my very first cycle!! I was consulting at rainbow with Dr. Ratna Durvasula and Preethi a Reddy ..doctors and hospital were very good but still somehow things just did not seem to work out for me. I have been consulting there for almost 3 years..but nothing.. Would you know any good doctors in Bangalore.. I would like to go to a doctor with whom people have had proven success.

 

Hi Aniya, I have asked my docs for laparoscopy but they said now that we have decided on IVF we will know what's going on. After my failed cycle I have not really had the courage to meet the doctor it's been almost 2 months!! I am now feeling a lot ok..emotionally so planning to meet her this weekend as I am moving to Bangalore. Let's see what does she have to say

 

Thanks divya.. getting back to being active will be my focus.. Past 2 months I've just been a depressed soul.. Hopefully change of city should help. Any suggestions on doctors in Bangalore.. Please do share ..