Heartbroken. Miscarried at 11wks after 3 yr ttc :(

HSD · Jun 4, 2014

It was a 3 year wait to see a positive preg test and it took a few hours to have lost the baby forever. I miscarried yesterday at 11+ wks.

I had always heard somebody or the other undergoing this pain of miscarriage and used to feel sorry for them. When it has finally happened to me, it's so difficult to believe that this has happened to us. But we're trying our best to cope with this loss and move on.

I wish there was a way to erase all memory of this pregnancy. :'cry:

seekingbless · Jun 4, 2014

im sorry for your lost. please keep trust in GOD. He has better plan for u.

umasivasankar · Jun 4, 2014

dont worry HSD...
i too have lost 2babies after delivery(within half an hour after delivery
)feb 2014 i was again pregnant bt after 3mnths dr advised me to terminate the baby bcos of some reason.bt i never lose hope.take it as whatever happened is good ,to have best in future.all d best....

Sami388 · Jun 4, 2014

Believe on god, In India elder says " Jo hota hai achche ke liye hi hota hai" so be positive. Lots of baby dust... Good luck

helpmeangel · Jun 4, 2014

HSD,

I am really sorry for your loss. Having gone through the same pain at 12 weeks, I understand how difficult it must be for you to forget this pain.. but do not worry, there is a silver lining to this..since you got pregnant once, you will be able to get pregnant again and carry your baby to full term..all the best!!

dasikajl · Jun 4, 2014

dont worry dear it happens with many people my sis also faced 4 miscarriages but later delivered healthy baby girl have trust in god and take plenty of rest
visit murugan temple and offer abhishaka i think this may be of some help
all the best
regards
jaya

Vasumathy · Jun 4, 2014

Hi HSD,
Very sorry for the loss! Hope GOD give you strength to move on! Try to forget it and focus on the next!
Be strong & positive! Take care of your health now! Bring back the good health to the body which is more important to move on to next stage! Take ample of rest!
Hope things will go well in the next time! Take care dear!

27csweetangel · Jun 5, 2014

sorry to hear this..i have been through the same last month when i miscarried for 3 rd time ..this time with ivf/icsi pgd.Time is best healer..dont loose hope .till then take care of yourself.

ragapriyaa · Jun 5, 2014

Feel very sorry for you. But has doc given a reason?

vidhya3b · Jun 6, 2014

I feel sorry for your loss. I can understand how you should be feeling I had undergone a miscarriage in the month of March.
Don't lose hope dear!!! God will definitely bless you.
But just take care of you health now. Go for any outing. Divert your mind.
My hugs to you.