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Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by lalithakumar, Apr 3, 2008.

  1. jdevi1982

    jdevi1982 New IL'ite

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    Re: newly marrried personal Issues

    Hi all..thanks a lot fr ur quick reply..im feeling much better...
     
  2. tashidelek2002

    tashidelek2002 IL Hall of Fame

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    Re: newly marrried personal Issues

    Be sure the condom is rolled all the way up to the top...if its not all the way up it will make intercourse very painful.
     
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    personal problem

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    I will get wet when we start, but sooner I am getting pain, hurt, burn and irritation problem starts in our private parts. We both are getting hurt. When we start intercourse I will get pain and after 10 minutes it will increase more. What will be the solution?
     
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    Re: personal problem

    If you get dry you may use KY Jelly or similar lubricants. They are available over the counter at any pharmacies. There are several brands and types(some are spermicides) - if you get confused consult the pharmacist.
     
  5. tashidelek2002

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    Re: personal problem

    I suggest you see a gynecologist to see if you have a vaginal infection. That can make things very painful.
     
  6. priyapraveendvs

    priyapraveendvs Bronze IL'ite

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    Re: personal problem

    hey golden rose!!!

    even i am fcing this problem from 2 motnhs!!!

    now i am bit ok

    80% i am alright

    i went to docotr she told me i am having yeast infection

    better go to docotr and had lots lots of water..a nd fenugreek seeds...


    please let me know also if you get any prescription...

    and measures what you are taking...
     
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  7. tashidelek2002

    tashidelek2002 IL Hall of Fame

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    Priya:
    If you want to treat naturally then cut out all sugar and take the grapefruit extract pills you can get at health food store. Also eat lots of dahi and you can also douche with it mixed with water.
     
  8. Serenity_John

    Serenity_John Bronze IL'ite

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    Re: newly marrried personal Issues

    If you are relaxed and it still feels a bit rough, you can try putting pillow under your back so that you are positioned more comfortably in angle.

    Good luck!
     
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    Priya,

    I also had yeast infections few times before. One thing recomended to me was AZO cranberry tablets. You can find them in Walmart, Walgreens, CVS, etc. It seemed to help me a lot.
     
  10. mahe26

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    hi everybody...
    i got married june -2009..

    MyMonthlyCycles are irregular( it means once in two months)..

    after marriage i got period on july-12 & sep-13....

    really i'm confussing about how to calculate ovulation calculation...

    everybody asking us about "GOOD NEWS"
    i love kids..

    pls help me..

    regards
     
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