Not able to conceive

Hello

I want to get pregenant but not able to concive due to some problem, i dont know what is that . But according to doctors we both me and my husbant are in good health, and not haveing any problem regarding pregenancy. Before i had 2 misscarrages. I have done all possible thing regarding this but is of no use. I tried IVF also. but don't know what to do. pls help me.
Shivani

Hi Shivani,

I can understand how you must be feeling.Since 3 Years I have been trying to get pregnent.I didnot concive anytime in these years.I had PCOD and still visiting doc every month.I have not lost hope.After reading your letter,the first thing came to my mind was that atleast you came to know that you can concive.be positive and hope for the best.

Best of Luck.

Hi Shivani,


Relax and think positive. I have read that if u take a vacation, it may help. Pray God. I'll also pray God that you come with a good news about baby.


Thanks,
Rukmani.

Hi Shivani,

Don't worry - things will happen when it is due for as per God's wish. All our prayers are there for you to get pregnant sooner.

Please do take a look at the following thread for more tips on pregnancy:

Infertility - social and family aspects - our members have given a lot of spiritual, medical and health advices too.

Note: Please be advised that these tips are based on what our members have heard and experienced that they are kind enough to share here. People are different and their medical and health conditions are different. So the body reacts differently for different people. We would advise you to take these tips that might suit you based on the advise from a well experienced gynaecologist.

Good luck to you to get pregnant soon.

Dear Shivani,

I had undergone the same situation. It was so frustrating. I had this PCOS and had to take all kind of medicines...
I was not satisfied with any of the gyn and kept changing the docs frequently.

Being a very pious person atlast I surrendered to God and thru constant prayers I have conceived now.
One more advice is find a reliable gyn and have full faith in her/him..(I have learnt it thru my experience )

So dont loose hope and keep praying.
Nive

hi shivani,
I am facing same problem.I am resident of Uae and have come to know that because of climatic conditions of this area,not conceiving is the most common issue over here.
Though it is very frustrating but dont know what to do.Left everything on God.
bye and best of luck
kph

I have PCOD too and I have heard its hard for people with this problem to concieve. I am scared about it myself. When is it a right time for people with problem to conceive? What age? any idea?
However I knew of a friend who took contraceptive pills. After stopping those pills, within the next month she fell pregnant. Maybe you can try that out.

Hi there!

I have PCOS and I am on combined pills. I have visited the doctor many a times regarding this. The doctor in India told me that you should try to conceive as early as possible after marriage and here in U.S., the doctor told me, latest by 30 you should plan to have one. If at all you aren't able to conceive then the doc told me that there are effective medications for that.
Anyways, my elder sis, she doesn't have any problems but still she is not able to conceive. She gets very frustrated when people asks her about the kids. I know what she is going through, so pleeee...ase don't lose hope. Stay happy and healthy. I am sure that will create the perfect environment for the magic to happen.

Hi shivani..

My cousine had same problem like yours and after trying 8 years and 4 miscarrage she got twins a boy and a girl.
Don't be concious its all physiological process you can make it worse by getting tense or depress. Try to be calm ,You are lucky you are in India where u can get treatment easily.
Try to do yoga and meditation'and enjoy.
Rajul

Hi ladies,

I'm also having PCO's are u ladies taking any medication??? I'm taking Metformin right now. Do update abt urself.