Lost my beautiful boy in NICU

honeyflower80 · Feb 14, 2011

I lost my baby son in NICU on 11th day of his birth. He was born at 30+ weeks Beautiful baby. Doctors told us he is going to make it, however, he caught an infection and passed away. This happened in Nov last year. I was waiting for my baby - we had conceived after TTCing for an year. Am almost 31 now.

The grief of losing my baby and all these factors are just killing me. There isn't a single moment when I'm not thinking about my boy. How could he go away. Such a darling.

I was blamed for travelling too much (on Indian bumpy roads) and causing the premature water breakage. You know, the baby shower, visiting relatives and all the stuff. I was so careful all the time in my pregnancy, but travelled in the last two weeks just before my water broke.

It's hard to go through this. My husband is very loving and supportive - if not for him I would have probably died by now.

Spiderman1 · Feb 14, 2011

Really sorry to hear that. Hope you get family support in this tough period.

AbhiSing · Feb 14, 2011

Honey

No words to console. My prayers be with you.

L69 · Feb 14, 2011

Hey dear,
Sorry to hear about the loss.
i can understand what you might be going through.
Be strong dear. you have a loving husband for your support.
God be with you & your family

radhaparth2000 · Feb 14, 2011

My heart goes for you. Please take care of your health and come out of this stress.

Nid31 · Feb 14, 2011

Hi honeyflower80,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss.. Tight hugs to you dear..........

Good that your DH is caring... Please take care of yourself...

God will give you strength to overcome this..

Nids

Malar2301 · Feb 14, 2011

Dear Honeyflower,

Sorry to hear!! I can understand your pain and no words can console you. Good that you have a very caring husband. Do not lose your hope. Almighty will show you a path soon. You will be in my prayers!!

Take Care.

swathi14 · Feb 14, 2011

I can understand the feeling of a mother. But please be with positive hopes. dont loose heart. take care of ur health.

My prayers are with you.

andal

waiting4miracle · Feb 14, 2011

Hey Honey Flower,

I am just so sorry about your baby. I know losing a child is the worth feeling for a mother but do be brave. I am sure ur baby's spirit will come back to you again.

Don't delve into the causes and don't let others do it too. It happened because it had to and not because of something u did or didn't do. Be brave.

Hugs

W4M

nityakalyani · Feb 14, 2011

Dear honey,

I do understand the prangs of this loss. Do not loose hope only god can create a miracle. May God give you enough strength to tide over this situation. May the soul rest in peace. My prayers are with you.