about birth control pills

hello ladies,
i have a clarification .i got married two years ago..we have not yet planned for a baby..i recently got admission for MS and postponed our plan for baby for two more years.i have irregular periods problem...actually,the first two years,i took some birth control pills and stopped after approx. 6 motnhs...now,iam going to take pills again,some other brand..my doubt is if i stop taking pills and plan for baby after two years,will that workout immediately? doctor is suggesting that taking pills will not affect the baby planning...i am afraid that if i postpone now by taking pills,and if time comes for our baby plan,will it work out? iam afraid about not getting baby any of my lifetime because of these pills..because i have heard people postponed their baby plan by taking pills,and suffered not able to conceive whenever they need..so...ladies please give suggestions about this...because i don't have any idea about this...iam 25 now...iam ready to take any suggestions..

rya
u could stop taking pill n use other contraceptive .Tell ur hubby to co-operate u.

Dear Rya

Let me tell you something I have observed.Please don't get me wrong...this is just my observation.

What is happening to you is what is happening to most young couples these days,especially those here in the U.S. After the marriage,most couples want to have some time for themselves to get to know each other,to go around seeing places etc,nothing wrong with that,so the pregnancy gets postponed by a year or two,sometimes even more than that.Then after that time period,the wife wants to work(because of initial visa problems,she might be able to work only now),so again the pregnancy gets post-poned.Sometimes,after settling down in a job,the couple might plan a pregnancy,or sometimes even after getting a job,it will come to going ahead in the job vs pregnancy and the latter always gets postponed.Finally,when the couple decide to go ahead with the pregnancy,that is when they realise that there are fertility issues and then it becomes an emotional battle.

In your case,you are experiencing irregular periods now,so why not go and check with a doctor now itself whether you will have any problems in conceiving.Maybe you can decide based on that.You are still young and this is definitely the right time to think about it.

I can tell you one thing,we can always plan for a child,but it is God who decides everything for us ultimately.Man proposes,God disposes.

There is a lot of debate about contraceptive pills and it is best to avoid it in your own interest.Regarding your question on whether when you plan,it will work out,I don't think anyone can plan exactly when they will have a baby,it is not in our hands at all.

Hey ladies,
thanks for your suggestions...yes you are right...it's not in our hands...anyway by now,i don't have any other alternative but to postpone my child plan...what to do? everyone in a family needs money..for that i have to support my husband and to help him....by god's grace if it works for me,then i will be happy..anyway friends..thanks again for your suggestions.
regards
ramya