Can I post messages that promote my site or product or company?

Unfortunately, the answer is “No”. Whenever you are unclear as to whether a message is acceptable or not, honestly ask yourself this question…

Am I writing this message to benefit me or benefit other ladies?

If you responded that your message is for the benefit of other ladies, go ahead and post!

Dear Induslady,
After reading this post I honestly doubt whether my posting about the release of my books will be covered under this restriction. Will be relieved to receive a reply from you.
regards,
Varalotti

Dear Varalotti,

Thanks for checking with us. Given the level of interest in your writings, our members would find it valuable to know about the release of your new books. Your post is perfectly acceptable.

Also, given your enormous contributions to IL, we definitely want to reciprocate by promoting your books in anyway we can!