Hi Bens Mom,
I recommend that you go over the orientation thread at
www.indusladies.com/welcome which will guide you through several aspects of getting the most out of this community.
You will get to know how to participate in the discussions here, how to post your own discussions, how to make friends here, how to find other ladies living in your neighborhood, etc.
After going through the orientation if you need more guidance, please post here and one of us will be glad to guide more as needed. Thank you.