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Coolgirl good what did you do?

Deepali I have read in many magazines and on internet nothing works on stretch marks. The creams just moisturizes the skin. It is also hereditary so if your mom has stretch marks you will also have it. Most of the stretch marks goes away after delivery. The only that can be done is apply moisturize your skin regularly. One of my friend said she applied Vitamin E oil daily and she did not have any stretch marks.

Padma even I have the same problem not sure how much of the CPR I will be able to do if needed.My hubby jokes I will be on the ground first if I have to do CPR .
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HI frens,

Coolgirl: Good finally you felt the LO movements..


Deepali:i am too preparing blanket with wool and with crochet its too faster so am sure when you will get time you will be able to complete your thing too.
i started last month using stretch mark cream but i think stretch marks cant be avoided as i have heard that from many. But still i am taking precaution and keep using this cream after delivery too.
Good your mom is coming to help you. why dont make your mom stay more. 15 days is too less but its gud you will get some relax and time for yourself.

Padma: Wow pakodas.. its temping with tea. now i dont care about heartburn i eat whatever i feel like cause after pregnancy i will have to control spicy n oily food(my DH never let me eat such things before i come in shape) but now i have all freedom.


Shwetha: I am preparing woolen baby blanket with crochet i think this is what you asked. Same with me reg CPR i think i'll be the one most panicked in house if something happens with baby.
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what's your baby's Rashi?? ( from the movie what's your Rashi )

Hey Jan Mommies i was wondering that most of us are going to have a CAPRICORN baby. Yesterday my bro in law sent me this sun signs linda goodman's PDF. I read most on Capricorn child.you guys too can get idea about your LO's characteristics.
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Dear Ladies,

Finally am back. 2 weeks since lot of work and no time to breathe.. Just relaxing in home now.. Tomorrow is my QA sign off and tomorrow will be a tough day again for me. Yday me & DH started from port authority around 9.30pm and reached home around 10.30pm and then I took bath & had dinner & slept around 11.30pm. Informed DH, mom not to wake me till 8am . Slept well but I felt really tired in the morning(since before day work was more).. Also, night time my Rithik did not allow me to sleep well.. Now itself he is bothering me too much not sure after birth.. Movements & kicks are increasingggggggggggggg day by day ladies for me . Between, night time I got muscle tightening pain(any tamil ladies around?? they call it suluku- blood clot like when sleeping) in winter most ladies will exp this.. Still that blood clot is paining for me on my legs.. Need to ask DH to apply bengay on that area...

Regarding, swelling of legs 2 days since started and wont go till delivery seems..

Padma - Stool in walmart?? Let me try it out.. Dustbin idea is bad for me since am working with clients around and it will look odd I feel... Also, my dustbin is too big in shape

Sheela - Do not worry. Always, LO is like that I think.. Most of ladies faced similar issues.. No movements etc etc.. I also face it sometimes and it is really scary you know.. But you know these days kicks started more...

Shwetha - Diet means I stopped rice(will not eat till I deliver Rithik).. then sweets to some extend.. stopped junk foods.. trying my hard.. and I lost 1 pound in my home mac... Some prob with doc mac becoz I see 7pounds diff in home & doc place.. Also, after foood I will have 3 pounds gained daily.. So doc wt is not accurate for me I think..

Akumar - Same here... My DH is very very cautious.. Always, he want me to be in shape.. HE is very cautious guy.. I dunno how he is maintaining wt(eating equivalent to me)... HE is always in shape.. Due to pregnancy he allows me to eat all.. But after GYN told me am getting more wt.. now he is behind me.. No sweet, no cake.. no junk.. haha not even allowing me to drink juice due to sugar.. asked me to drink more water otherwise he said he will come to my office & beat me finally

Am counting my days to deliver child soon and go to gym and maintain my wt soon
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Deepali - Stretch marks?? I dont think I have anything like that.. But I have heard about the saME.. I see only a line(dark) starting from chest region till lower abs.. tats all i can see as of now

Akumar - I get up often for peeing but i dont have any sore throat.. I have heart burns during night times... Its rare.. not often

Ladies - One question to all.. Are you still shaving your unwanted hears below vaginal areas?? I always do that.. These days I cant even see my hairs becoz of my tummy.. But still I clean that area.. I asked GYN if i can leave my hairs as such but I feel so uneasy with hairs.. DH scolds not to remove them becoz its extra effort in bathroom...

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padma09 - Onion pakodas is mouth watering.We had team lunch day before and had gone to a restaurant and I relished all the starters mainly tandoor starters and pakodas which I love them.I ate so many of them.I am enjoying all oily and spicy food(ofcourse within the limit) as I know we will not be allowed to eat spicy and oily once LO comes out as it is transferred to LO too And I really like fried items
I do get heartburns at times but its not like everyday.May be if I eat oily or spicy things.But I have heard that if you have heartburns it means LO will be having good hairs. Dont know it might be grandmother's tales.

Akumar - Yes crochet is faster than knitting.However I dont know knitting and know only crochet.I have made a small piece to be kept below flower vase and that itself took months.I had started it in the first trimester after hearing we should be doing the things we love and ended finishing it in second trimester I am yet to start with blanket.
Actually from now I am retiring from household work for few months
My mom is here for 15 days after which I have Seemantham on 22nd Nov at in-laws place and I will be going to mom's place for delivery and also starting maternity leave as I will be entering 9th month.

Anitha - Swelling of legs can be avoided to some extent if you do proper exercise.
Whenever you sit in office try to keep your feet elevated.
Also we have Yoga classes in our office.She teaches us prenatal exercises.Yesterday she taught few foot exercises due to which we will not have leg swelling.She told us to do below things:
1.Rotate your feet clockwise and anti-clockwise inhaling and exhaling.(20-25times)
2.Walk on your toes one side and then walk back on your heels.Its also very good for calf pains.
3. Stretch your feet straight and back(20-25 times)
I hope this helps.
Also as Padma said take breaks and take a walk during office hours.I usually take seperate breaks for going to the restroom,for drinking water,going to the pantry and as all these are far from my desk its a nice walk till there.Also limit your salt intake.

Shwethag - I have also heard that stretch marks are hereditary and it seems my mom had them Still am trying to avoid them.Lets c if I get successful.

I too have a line running from my chest to pelvic region.But I have heard its due to pregnancy hormones so nothing to worry about.

About maintaining wt my DH has already planned my menu after delivery to come back in shape But now he doesnt stop me from eating anything unless he thinks it will harm LO.So I am enjoying all food
I have to come back to shape as my mom and MIL both are medium-built.
So I will not be allowed to bloat anyways.

Girls am seeing lot of hairs growing on my tummy these days.
There are few hairs right below my belly button which are getting longer n longer day by day.Is anyone else having it?
My DH jokes that those are LO's hairs peeping out as its not having room inside

Today again its a long post.
I think its just a normal girl's nature.Even if we talk for long hours it would be always less

Take care ladies..
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hey Deepali,

Good to read your post. ladies always type more & talk more.. I will like when never I login into IL and my DH will ask if there is any long writing competition going on with IL...

You are right. Even I have hairs on my tummy... My DH will tease me like anything.. I will ask him to cut those with scissors.. If I try cutting he will scold and pluck scissors from me and he will give a try..

Sure, will follow all your swelling reduction techniques from next week since this week is horrible, hectic(no words to express) for me... DH will tell dont worry.. Just work for next 2mon and take a long break .

Since am working for Bank Of America work is more always.. Also, people are too elder than me & very experienced and I sometimes wonder how to tackle those.

So all ladies are cautious about shape back ah . Am also into it... lets talk about reduction soon after we deliver our LO's.. I have a body which will grow like anything if I dont do gymming or if I dont stop rice

Regarding, baby shower mostly we will not have it since we are in USA.. No relatives and also my in laws in INDia.. I have a cousin in VA who is also leaving to India for her bro wedding so we have no one to get this done.. Hopefully for my 2nd kid I will be in India and can do this function.. In our caste we never do baby shower but there is a function after LO birth which is called 'Purunttu' which we do in temple or house.. I think this also I will miss since in USA :(
May be we will take Lo to temple for this.. but winter will be horrible by then so may take Rithik in April only :)

Ladies -

1. Hair removal - Are you still shaving hairs from unwanted areas?
2. H1N1 - Who has taken this shot recently??????

In our office something or other we will celebrate.. day before yday carrot cake was served.. yday chocolate cake was given.. hahahhaa DH was not behind me since we are working in diff offices :)

Getting ready to office .... Keep you all posted !!

Happy weekend ahead.. Ladies in USA anybody having long weekend?? DH has it.. But I have to work on MOnday but I have holiday for Veterans day on Wed
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Hi ladies .....

i did not do anything ...LO started moving by after noon the other ....Lo kicks are irregular ......but when she kicks ...some times ...it is so pain full ........

having bad leg and back pain lately ........


regarding the hair removing part .....i have been having removing till now .....but it is becoming difficult ..i cannot c anything ....b'coze of big tummy ....


have lots on my tummy .....did not have before .......becoming like a bear .....


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regarding the weight gain ..how much have u girls gained ....

i have gained ....20 pounds ...till now .......have to really reduce post delivery ......


i have started noticing lot of stretch marks ......using cream .....seams no effect ......as stretch marks r becoming more and more .......may be part of the package (pregnancy )......


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Hey Sheela,

I also gained only 20 pounds till now, I am expecting Baby girl on Jan 5th. Till now i don't have any prob like Heart burn, legs swelling. Everything is normal. AS anitha said I too have no stretch marks on my tummy, still we have to apply oil / cream coz i am not applying anything.

I am eating Pickles, spicy food without spice i am unable to eat. My BP is normal as i eat more salt comparing with my family members.

And one more thing for Post-delivery no one is coming to help me, i have to do alone. My DH is very busy with work, he is always with his laptop, don't know how 'll I manage, praying to god to have normal delivery otherwise it is very very difficult to climb stair case everyday. I live in DC area, so winter will be Horrible.

Have a Nice weekend to all...
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