Thanks for yor reply. Distance doesnt matter in friendship. However at times you also feel like be yourself and going out and enjoying with friends. I welcome you as my friend.
I am married and me and DH are living alone in gurgaon. He has lot of friends but i do not have no friend here.
Tell me about yourself.
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You have just shifted to a new place and can't expect to make friends soon..and why do you think nobody likes to be your friend? Any reason? You said your husband has got lots of friends; is it because he has been going out to work. Why don't you join a job? Gurgaon is a paradise for job seekers.
Moreover, you can start making friends with your husband's friends wives and hang around. Ask me, whenever, I shift to a new city, my best friend is my DH. Jab tak koi na mile, he's there na...
I am doing a job. We were staying at delhi and now shifted to gurgaon. My husband and me both are working but in opposite shifts. I work during day and he works at night.
Regarding his friends, All his friends are bachelor except one or two and i have tried to gel with them. But i think they dont like it too much. Regarding my office i have all the Male staff except me and just one more Lady. She is very elder to me. SO thats is y i feel very alone. I do not have Computer at home as well.
THat's y i thought of making friends to kill my lonliness.
ARe u from chandigarh as my hometown is chandigarh. I was there before marriage
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Last edited by dheeranjali; 30th October 2009 at 06:48 AM.
I really feel bad for you. But no so bad. Try to engage urself. I am married and have a son 7 yrs old. Sometimes I also feel same as you. But it is part of life. If u want to share any of ur feelings or experiences u r warmly welcom.
You can start making small talk with your neighbours , one thing leads to another. Ask them about beauty parlours, maids , shops etc . once they know that you are ready to mingle then you will start getting invitations to kitty parties and other events.
People usually feel that working women have no time for chit-chat , if you show interest they will definitely respond .