You Are Selfish...!!!

Hii...All...!!!
Iam here to know that sometimes we people are selfish...Do anybody found themselves feeling selfish.....
Do YOU recognise that??? sometimes I feel like that "Iam selfish" for some situations that may be silly or serious...depends upon my mood or anything....!!!
Am I just being selfish.....?? I keep thinking and the answer is always.............!! selfish is “always doing things for ones own happiness”......I will be selfish to make my self happy....Sometimes selfishness leads to achive things in life but sometimes it wont make us happy....!!!
Therefore there is nothing in this world that one can do without having at least a selfish..... Which is not necessarily a bad thing as it leads happiness and achive want we want ...So dear ladies it's your turn now Do You All Agree With Me ...Let Me Know...!!!

Hi,

I dont think ur definition about selfish is right.May be it can be like
"always doing things for ones own happiness" + at the cost of other's happiness..
So, if u dont hurt others, dont be jealous on others,dont cheat others, but do something for ur happiness, then its not selfish.. its normal human nature..
So, hope u r not selfish as u mentioned all the time..

Love,
Pavi

Originally Posted by kpavi

Hi,

I dont think ur definition about selfish is right.May be it can be like
"always doing things for ones own happiness" + at the cost of other's happiness..
So, if u dont hurt others, dont be jealous on others,dont cheat others, but do something for ur happiness, then its not selfish.. its normal human nature..
So, hope u r not selfish as u mentioned all the time..

Love,
Pavi

Iam not saying iam selfish ...iam saying sometimes we feel we r selfish and we will b selfish...It does't mean that iam saying that iam always selfish...!!

Akhi,

as our friend pavi told, as long as we are not hurting , cheating others for our happiness, we are not selfish.. but you might be thinking inner meaning here. if so let me also put my views here.

If we think in deep, every act has some self ego surrounding it, like even if we are liking somebody, loving our family members, there might be some selfishness behind... there is song in old movie " tata manavadu" it goes like this.

"Anubadham. aatmeeyata.. anta oka bhutakam.. aatma trupthi kai manushulu aadukune naatakam.. vinta naatakam"

I want to give example here..

" I have a pinni(my mothers sister) who got widow 3 years back and since then I am in regular touch with her on phone to know her well being to make her feel better that we are all there for her. my mothers elder sister is also window since long time but I never keep in touch with her even though her nature is also very good, it might be just because she is old enough and my frequency of thoughts and her frequency of thought dont match , but at the same time, it matches with my pinnis, is it not selfish nature of me, why cant I be more open and talk to both of them in same manner? it is a question to myself for which I am thinking answer is "Selfish" of having some pleasure, gaining some knowledge from her life experiences while talking to pinni.

Sujatha.

hii sujatha ..!!
hmmm what you said is rite iam glad to receive your message...just I want to know the views how people think about the thought what I got....!!!

HI Akhi,

So I guessed what exactly you are thinking about Selfish

yeah skalluri...!!