Dear Kashvya,
Firstly, thanks to EQA for directing me to this post... Otherwise, I would have missed the Bus... Great... Already the legends of the IL have come in and answered... Great...
I can fully understand the dilema of YDH... I know, when some of my friends peep in and see what I suf in net... They used to tell me the same... What are you doing in the all girls website... I have so far not entered any other site, other than IL...
I joined here accidentally... My DW is a member here for long time... She used to tell me lot of things... stories... about people, their issues... Even before I join here, I knew about lot of people... Once there was a story, for which I had some view points... I told my DW to write... She declined and said, if you want you yourself can register and post your views... I dont know, whether she thought I will not join or what... But I registered and posted... She was surpried... That is how I joined IL... I dont have any regrets... I am more than happy to be part of the IL Family...
My experience here is great, but for one incident... I gained lot of good friends, my Guruji, God mom, sisters... who are always there for you... I met lot of people... I learnt a lot...
I dont enter into the girlie sections... and stay clear... hahahahahahaha... You have to understand that my DW is also here...


... Don't ask me if she is not there will you be peeping in...Big LaughBig Laugh... still a NO...
With regard to the tearful wife and Dominating husband stories... MIL/SIL issues... I dont get into that... I do not have the experience or exposure to advice... I believe that all men are not bad and all girls are not greats... Each one have their own plus and minus... and if you have unconditional love and think for the best of the family then everything will work out... Nothing comes out without a sacrifice... You have to give something to gain something... May be I am wrong...
Beauty / Health / Cookery sections... I already am hadsome and my DW is the most beautiful girl in the whole world... hahahhahaha... Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder... so... I stay clear of that... since I have a great cook in my house already... No entry... Kitchen is her Fort... so... I just relax and enjoy eating it... Why waste your energy and time, when you are getting it without a sweat... hahahahahaaha...
Life is to enjoy is my concept... So, enjoy the limited time available to the fullest extent... I enjoy my stay in IL...
Veda