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Old 7th March 2008, 03:34 AM
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Dear Chineeya Sir

Your thread has forced me to do introspection as I am a very consistenet person and open too. I totally go with what Indushri has written

Dear Cheeniya sir ,
Ur post was really an eye- opener for me . I ‘ve decided to be an inconsistent person hereafter ! Ur words that changed me a lot are :
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it takes a lot of efforts to be consistent, as the conditions of life do not remain the same. Inconsistency never makes great demands on your resources and you can be as flexible as you desire. "

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If you are thoroughly consistent and highly predictable and if you are the kind that takes considerable pride in declaring yourself an open book, you can be certain that you are going to be used as a doormat.”-

I totally identify with these words. May be that's why I have not created enough waves in my life.

But, I agree with Chitvish ma'am also, in ceratin regimes one has to be consistent. Like consistently striving hard to acheive ones target. Being a lecturer, I have to be consistent. Unpredictability doesn't go well with students.

But, still after reading your article i think I need to change myself.

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Dear Ansh
As I have repeatedly clarified in my replies, consistency is essential in our personal habits and routine. Flexibility is recommended only in our relationship with others including our family, work place, friends etc. There is nothing wrong in striving hard to achieve our goal but it should never be allowed to become an all consuming passion which in turn may force us to go to any length to achieve our goal.
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Dear Sri,

This thread speaks in volumes. Count me quickly 'IN' amongst inconsistent people. People who live with me also cannot predict what I will be doing next. Sometimes their thought matches with my action and most of the time they fall flat. Nobody can predict what I will be doing next and I love to be inconsistent. When my close associates do figure out some consistency in me, I have a hearty laugh as their prediction was imaginative and I am nowhere closer to what they have sketched about me. For me this is one life and we have to live it in the best ways and not drawing spheres, hexograms and squares of consistence. Keep rambling dear dear Sri.
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Dear Sri,

This thread speaks in volumes. Count me quickly 'IN' amongst inconsistent people. People who live with me also cannot predict what I will be doing next. Sometimes their thought matches with my action and most of the time they fall flat. Nobody can predict what I will be doing next and I love to be inconsistent. When my close associates do figure out some consistency in me, I have a hearty laugh as their prediction was imaginative and I am nowhere closer to what they have sketched about me. For me this is one life and we have to live it in the best ways and not drawing spheres, hexograms and squares of consistence. Keep rambling dear dear Sri.
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What a great relief to hear that you are as inconsistent as inconsistency can be! I knew all along that a fascinating woman like you can not afford to be consistent. How can a consistent woman be ever fascinating? Right from Cleopatra, this has been the major strength of strong women! Who will want to read a mystery novel if the end is known to him?
If you must confine your life to any geometrical pattern, a circle is the best. It has no beginning and no end.
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