Is beauty = height ????

Height and beauty no correlation .......................
beauty is something different from the above things

 

Height has no relationship with beauty. I am a 5' woman, have never felt I am ugly either.

I think you should give her the taste of her own medicine once to shut her up once and for all. How about "Oh you are old, you cant do this" , "old people wont fit this, so let me do this". It is good if she gets the message!

BTW, tell her, "so what, your son loves me, so I never care if I am short or tall"! That would be the last nail on the coffin! Try it.

 

5.2' is just nice for women. not to short or tall. im 5.4'
if u're not too plump u will look really cute and petite and look ever young. Dont take ur MIL's words to ur heart, she is probably jelous of u.
even though im 5.4' i feel like giant when i wear heels when i stand among my asian's friends. and always opted to stand behind or hunch a bit to talk photo with them. :hide:

 

You want to update your concepts and attitude on 'beauty' for the sake of your Mother in Law ? !:hide:

 

There is no pleasing MIL in any department. Simply ignore her.
I am quite good looking and my MIL was most pleased with the alliance . Now AFTER wedding my MIL found a problem with that as I am fairer than her son and better looking :bang
BTW my sis is 5.2 and the best looking and most well groomed person I have ever seen.

 

Just keep ignoring her, one day she will fed up doing the same thing again....clear it is!

 

From my side, beauty is not equal to height. Both are different.

 

Even if you are 5'8", your MIL would complain something or the other about your height, and compare you with other short girls on the street to say how beautiful they are. It is not about your height, but about your relationship with your MIL.

I had a very BADDDD relationship with my MIL. She would comment anything under the sky to put me down. She would even compare me with our cleaner on several things to make me feel bad/odd in front of others. There was nothing left that she did not comment or compare about me.

I stayed calm, ignored her and then after a while, I started rebelling against her attitude. I confronted her each time, and demanded respect. Sometimes, I even go to the extend of picking up her weakness and comment equally bad as her to give her the taste of her own medicine. I feel shame for doing that now. However, nothing worked well for us.

So, I decided to completely distance myself from her. Altogether, I treated her as non-existence. Despite living as neighbors, I totally avoided her with my whole heart. Not like ignorance purposefully, I really started feeling as if she is no more.

This trick worked well for both of us. For sometimes, she too distanced from me. Focused all the enmity towards my co-sis, and something else.
After sometimes, now we are back. As new persons. I can see a huge change in her. She thinks twice before she comments on anything. Even if she comments casually something against me or my belief, she would immediately change the topic or apologize.
I took a while to understand whether she is acting or trying to change. No matter what, the bottom line is... If someone doesn't like you, they will see every bad things about you.