"A Rational Gift"

when impossible is made possible then it is a blog..sunkan

Here is my two cents dear Ramya,
Paradise is always there. Only thing is we are unable to find it. All of us are gifted, all of us are blessed not just with material gifts but also with so many other things, but we dont want to look out for them in ourselves. We always take things for granted. We all fear God, but we dont keep faith in him. Many things in life always come us without much effort, and many parents make sure they give their kids all that is asked for from them. Things will definitely be better if all of us start doing good.

Let me put in more of my thougts once the discussion starts heating up.

Oh my dear Sundari ma'am, (Sunkan ji).

Just with a single line you made your presence felt strong !!

Regards
RamyaVaradharajan

Dear Rajmiarun ma'am,

Thank you very much for pooling in your "initial set-of" thoughts :) Well said. We are made to feel that life is "perfectly stitched to suit our needs" when parents do the needful at each and every step of ours, without letting us to be experienced.

Yes, finding ourselves is the first search that mankind has go about. The search is not easy enough as it clubs the self with the soul and the mind.

Waiting for an heated-up discussion with other ILites too!!

Regards
RamyaVaradharajan

I like your essay.
it is meaningful and thought provoking!
I like it.

Dear most Qingju I (oh with great care I spelled your name :) )

First of all, a hearty welcome to our family !! Thank you very much for your feedback. Happy that you felt it meaningful :)

Keep sharing
Happy days ahead
Love
RamyaVaradharajan

Dear Ramya,

Paradise is the state of mind. We have to tune ourselves to be happy under all circumstances. Being human, it is a little difficult tast but not impossible. Sages can do it thats what they proclaim, we are not sages. Cry it out, talk it out, discuss and move. Paradise is seen by a person who moves from the current situation or state to a better one. If we have decided to stay PUT in the same situation. one cannot seek paradise. Life is an inning of challenge. Each day is like a cricket ball, at times we can hit to a four, at times a wonderful six, at times we have to duck to avoid the bouncer, at times we may get injured as we did not see the bouncer coming in, at times the smartest of us all also can make mistake and get out, at times all that we can manage is a single run inspite of having all the talents, there are times when we have to let the ball pass without playing inspite of having master talent in us. We cannot crib for the bad balls and cannot be overjoyed with the good balls. Every bad ball has to be followed by a good ball, every bad phase has to be followed by a good phase, every bad day, will be followed by a better day, if we ready to move, taking the best from the past, learning from the bitter experiences, there is paradise in our everyday life.

Dearest Mals friend,

Since a long time of communition :) Thank you very much for pooling in your thoughts. I agree. True that every phase has to be followed by the other side of it. Change is inevitable in nature. Change is the constant phenomenon that she holds too !!! But when mankind starts realising what they do at every step, I guess the solutions will automatically reach the existing problems. We lack "social" awareness and tend to lead a life for our own selves and more to stress, we pull down those who are at the top to get to their place even if they extend a lending hand. The mind set has to change from the grass root level !!

Regards with Love
RamyaVaradharajan