Honest thoughts... Frank opinions...
Choice on life
Posted 8th April 2009 at 05:53 AM by JustAni
As I sat reading an article about it, I thought to myself about the many ladies who must have gone through it - the pain, the agony, the reason for their action, the remorse. Their reason might not seem valid, maybe that's why they choose not to disclose it to anyone. But when I think about how a reaction would be towards it, I can only presume it to be - "How could she do such a thing?"
A sensitive topic which is rarely discussed. Mainly, because we don't want others to judge us by our opinion. No matter how we dicuss, it will always remain a topic best avoided by many. There are many who boldly accept it as the best thing, & yet many who are willing to have numerous agruements about it being the worst thing a lady can do. But admist all the disagreements, the lady suffers in silence. Having committed the act, she can never open up, without having a thought of how she's going to be judged.
Most times we judge people not by how they are, but by their actions. No matter how genuine the reason, we are quick to judge them. We fail to put ourselves in their shoes, fail to feel what they are feeling.
At the end of the day, a life has gone by... and the arguement continues...
A sensitive topic which is rarely discussed. Mainly, because we don't want others to judge us by our opinion. No matter how we dicuss, it will always remain a topic best avoided by many. There are many who boldly accept it as the best thing, & yet many who are willing to have numerous agruements about it being the worst thing a lady can do. But admist all the disagreements, the lady suffers in silence. Having committed the act, she can never open up, without having a thought of how she's going to be judged.
Most times we judge people not by how they are, but by their actions. No matter how genuine the reason, we are quick to judge them. We fail to put ourselves in their shoes, fail to feel what they are feeling.
At the end of the day, a life has gone by... and the arguement continues...
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hi justani,
i assume u are talking about abortion ..its never easy on the woman ..there must be a good reason i feel .or else she would not do it :)
as u say .we should give her the benefit of the doubt ..put ourselves in her shoes :)
jaijuiPosted 8th April 2009 at 08:12 AM by jaijui0
