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Nature has given to man one tongue, but two ears, that we mayhear from others twice as much as we speak.
In life there is always a good and bad. Some people are treated with great respect but some are not treated so. Those who are smart and know to carry themselves is respected by everyone and lead their life peacefully. Whereas people who are not so bold and don’t know to carry themselves feel very unsecured always.
Every one is not so talented. Each one has some good qualities in them . Some might be great in cooking but they don’t know the outside world. But this world gives importance to people who are smart. Some are good in doing outside work but at home they don’t know cooking and they don’t take interest also in that. They love enjoying themselves . But in this world people expect that a woman should know everything, the work inside the house and also outside the house.
There are so many restrictions for married, un married, widows etc. Some rituals cant be done by widows. People don’t understand how a widow must be feeling when she is not allowed to take part in some rituals. Feel sorry for them.Atleast now a days widows keep tickli on their forehead so people don’t know whether they are widow or not.
Some are so nervous that they don’t know to show their talent. Whatever they do they do it with fear and sometimes it does not turn out properly. Some are very confident and whatever they do turns out nicely and they get the appreciation from everyone. Some people know to talk nicely so they get along with everyone. Some are sweet on the face but inside they are different. All that glitters is not gold. If some people cook it turns out nicely and everyone will say her kai manam is very good, means whatever she does turns out nicely. Even when we go to some shops the shopkeeper will say if u do boni then there is good sale at the shop. Don’t know whether he is applying maska or really he means it.
To live is this world you should be smart and know to carry yourselves.
Nature has given to man one tongue, but two ears, that we mayhear from others twice as much as we speak.
In life there is always a good and bad. Some people are treated with great respect but some are not treated so. Those who are smart and know to carry themselves is respected by everyone and lead their life peacefully. Whereas people who are not so bold and don’t know to carry themselves feel very unsecured always.
Every one is not so talented. Each one has some good qualities in them . Some might be great in cooking but they don’t know the outside world. But this world gives importance to people who are smart. Some are good in doing outside work but at home they don’t know cooking and they don’t take interest also in that. They love enjoying themselves . But in this world people expect that a woman should know everything, the work inside the house and also outside the house.
There are so many restrictions for married, un married, widows etc. Some rituals cant be done by widows. People don’t understand how a widow must be feeling when she is not allowed to take part in some rituals. Feel sorry for them.Atleast now a days widows keep tickli on their forehead so people don’t know whether they are widow or not.
Some are so nervous that they don’t know to show their talent. Whatever they do they do it with fear and sometimes it does not turn out properly. Some are very confident and whatever they do turns out nicely and they get the appreciation from everyone. Some people know to talk nicely so they get along with everyone. Some are sweet on the face but inside they are different. All that glitters is not gold. If some people cook it turns out nicely and everyone will say her kai manam is very good, means whatever she does turns out nicely. Even when we go to some shops the shopkeeper will say if u do boni then there is good sale at the shop. Don’t know whether he is applying maska or really he means it.
To live is this world you should be smart and know to carry yourselves.
I cannot change the world but I can change myself
Posted 8th July 2009 at 01:49 AM by iyerviji
Never explain yourself to anyone because the person who likes you does not need it and the person who dislikes you does not believe it.
Many a times if a friend suddenly stops talking to us or if we had any arguements regarding something we try to explain ourselves to them, but if the friend is close to us and knows us well will forgive us and listen to what we say but if the friend is not so close and does not know us well will not believe what we say and it ends up in misundersanding each other.
Some people dont bother about these things and they dont care whether that friend talks to them or not.
But some need everyone and like to be friendly with everyone and dont like to hurt anyone.
If we dont expect anything from others we will never be disappointed.
Learn to understand first and to be understood second. We should be like salt, if it is there we dont feel the presence and if it is not there it will be tasteless
viji
Many a times if a friend suddenly stops talking to us or if we had any arguements regarding something we try to explain ourselves to them, but if the friend is close to us and knows us well will forgive us and listen to what we say but if the friend is not so close and does not know us well will not believe what we say and it ends up in misundersanding each other.
Some people dont bother about these things and they dont care whether that friend talks to them or not.
But some need everyone and like to be friendly with everyone and dont like to hurt anyone.
If we dont expect anything from others we will never be disappointed.
Learn to understand first and to be understood second. We should be like salt, if it is there we dont feel the presence and if it is not there it will be tasteless
viji
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DEar Viji Ji,
I admire your last line."We should be like salt, if it is there we dont feel the presence and if it is not there it will be tasteless". So true !!! But willingly or unwillingly we do this many times.. Small misunderstandings make big issues making distances between friends..Posted 8th July 2009 at 02:33 AM by Deepali_deepali
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Viji Maa, a well thought out piece. I loved this sentence
Quote:If we dont expect anything from others we will never be disappointed.Posted 8th July 2009 at 03:14 AM by sigmabeta -
Viji aunty,
Take a chance with your friends. try to understand before demanding to be understood.
the moment you do not expect from any relationships, you almost reach the correct equation for success in the relationship..Posted 8th July 2009 at 05:35 AM by Shanvy -
Hi Ma'am,
I feel what you have written is absolutely true!!! I like it...Posted 8th July 2009 at 06:17 AM by priya_mary -
Wonder words Viji.
Its a beautiful post that explains how we should behave with others.
I really like it.
andalPosted 8th July 2009 at 09:15 AM by swathi14
