I am going to try my luck on blogs. Need everyone's encouragement
Nature has given to man one tongue, but two ears, that we mayhear from others twice as much as we speak.
In life there is always a good and bad. Some people are treated with great respect but some are not treated so. Those who are smart and know to carry themselves is respected by everyone and lead their life peacefully. Whereas people who are not so bold and don’t know to carry themselves feel very unsecured always.
Every one is not so talented. Each one has some good qualities in them . Some might be great in cooking but they don’t know the outside world. But this world gives importance to people who are smart. Some are good in doing outside work but at home they don’t know cooking and they don’t take interest also in that. They love enjoying themselves . But in this world people expect that a woman should know everything, the work inside the house and also outside the house.
There are so many restrictions for married, un married, widows etc. Some rituals cant be done by widows. People don’t understand how a widow must be feeling when she is not allowed to take part in some rituals. Feel sorry for them.Atleast now a days widows keep tickli on their forehead so people don’t know whether they are widow or not.
Some are so nervous that they don’t know to show their talent. Whatever they do they do it with fear and sometimes it does not turn out properly. Some are very confident and whatever they do turns out nicely and they get the appreciation from everyone. Some people know to talk nicely so they get along with everyone. Some are sweet on the face but inside they are different. All that glitters is not gold. If some people cook it turns out nicely and everyone will say her kai manam is very good, means whatever she does turns out nicely. Even when we go to some shops the shopkeeper will say if u do boni then there is good sale at the shop. Don’t know whether he is applying maska or really he means it.
To live is this world you should be smart and know to carry yourselves.
Nature has given to man one tongue, but two ears, that we mayhear from others twice as much as we speak.
In life there is always a good and bad. Some people are treated with great respect but some are not treated so. Those who are smart and know to carry themselves is respected by everyone and lead their life peacefully. Whereas people who are not so bold and don’t know to carry themselves feel very unsecured always.
Every one is not so talented. Each one has some good qualities in them . Some might be great in cooking but they don’t know the outside world. But this world gives importance to people who are smart. Some are good in doing outside work but at home they don’t know cooking and they don’t take interest also in that. They love enjoying themselves . But in this world people expect that a woman should know everything, the work inside the house and also outside the house.
There are so many restrictions for married, un married, widows etc. Some rituals cant be done by widows. People don’t understand how a widow must be feeling when she is not allowed to take part in some rituals. Feel sorry for them.Atleast now a days widows keep tickli on their forehead so people don’t know whether they are widow or not.
Some are so nervous that they don’t know to show their talent. Whatever they do they do it with fear and sometimes it does not turn out properly. Some are very confident and whatever they do turns out nicely and they get the appreciation from everyone. Some people know to talk nicely so they get along with everyone. Some are sweet on the face but inside they are different. All that glitters is not gold. If some people cook it turns out nicely and everyone will say her kai manam is very good, means whatever she does turns out nicely. Even when we go to some shops the shopkeeper will say if u do boni then there is good sale at the shop. Don’t know whether he is applying maska or really he means it.
To live is this world you should be smart and know to carry yourselves.
Eat to live and dress to please others
Posted 30th June 2009 at 01:29 PM by iyerviji
People say eat to live and dress to please others.
In Modern times people have to dress up nicely and look smart .Then only they are recognised.
The dress should be according to the place we go. For marriages we have to dress up nicely with jewellery, pure silk saree etc.
Other places we can go in a simple way.
Some are very fond of dressing. But some like to be simple but they look attractive in simplicity only. Some dress up well but still dont look so smart.
In olden days South Indian Men used to wear Dhothi only. Now there are different types of dresses for men like Pant and shirt, Kurta Pyjama, teenagers wear Jeans and shirt.
Some are very particular about dressing up.They wear only ironed dresses.
My husband is not so fond of dressing up. He likes to be simple. While going to office he used to wear Pant and Shirt. But after retirement he wears only Dhothi whereverhe goes. Previously he used to wear Dhothi and Shirt. During my son's marriage, my son brought him Kurta, Pyjama. So of late he wears for Reception, Kurta and Pyjama. Of late he has started wearing Tea shirts.
In Modern times people have to dress up nicely and look smart .Then only they are recognised.
The dress should be according to the place we go. For marriages we have to dress up nicely with jewellery, pure silk saree etc.
Other places we can go in a simple way.
Some are very fond of dressing. But some like to be simple but they look attractive in simplicity only. Some dress up well but still dont look so smart.
In olden days South Indian Men used to wear Dhothi only. Now there are different types of dresses for men like Pant and shirt, Kurta Pyjama, teenagers wear Jeans and shirt.
Some are very particular about dressing up.They wear only ironed dresses.
My husband is not so fond of dressing up. He likes to be simple. While going to office he used to wear Pant and Shirt. But after retirement he wears only Dhothi whereverhe goes. Previously he used to wear Dhothi and Shirt. During my son's marriage, my son brought him Kurta, Pyjama. So of late he wears for Reception, Kurta and Pyjama. Of late he has started wearing Tea shirts.
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Viji Maa, I'm the first one to give fb. A sweet piece this one.. I liked the way you describe your DH's dress transition over the years.Posted 1st July 2009 at 09:24 AM by sigmabeta
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Dear Syama
Thanks for your first fb. I was justthinking 80 views no comments. I dont understand why I dont get fbs though there are many views.
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vijiPosted 1st July 2009 at 01:14 PM by iyerviji
