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om sai ram

on april 20th,2006, Bhagawan Baba gave me and my
mother the most real and rarest experience,he manifested in front of
our home as young shirdi sai baba,and spoke to us for 20-25 minutes.he
created a rudraksha,a pendant[locket] for my mother and a
seed[mayflower] for me.

it was a thursday,and just few days ago sri sathya sai had appeared in
2 dreams for me and my mother.he told my mother that he would come to
mangalore and he told in my dream that he would not come into our
home,when i asked him if he would.both dreams came true!

thursday,20th april 2006 evening,we decided to go to both sai mandirs
of mangalore.there is a shirdi sai mandir and a sathya sai mandir,and
we have the habit of going to both.so we made our way out of the
apartment and stood near the gate for an autorikshaw.

suddenly I saw someone manifest out of nowhere at the corner of the
road,a little further away from us.my first thought was-God now
something is going to happen.then i kept looking for an
auto.meanwhile,baba came in front of us after about 2-3 minutes.he was
young shirdi sai,exact same height and build and face.same colour,with
a cloth bag hanging on His left shoulder.he was wearing pink and green
silk,wearing some bead chains,his face was shining,eyes were extremely
beautiful and sparkling,black beard and moustache,and he was of
moderately dark skin.

he spread his cloth in front of us and asked for dakshina,in hindi.it
was pure hindi which sounded rather ancient.my mom was a bit annoyed
as she did not recognise him but I did.she took two 2 rupee coins and
gave it to Him.He took one coin and kept it in my mom's hands,he asked
her to recieve it with both hands.then he said,tell "jai bolo shankar
bhagawan ki" and when she opened her palms,there was a metallic pendant!!

she got a little afraid.we were both astonished because the pendant
appeared in her palms,not His.then He said give more money.by now she
was more annoyed!!she gave Him a hundred rupee note.while we were
watching,He folded it into a square shape.then he asked my mom to
spread her palms again.he kept it in her hands,and said to her,bolo
jai shankar bhagawan ki! suddenly she felt a lump in her hands.she
opened them ,to find a huge rudraksha!!it was five faced and had holes
on both ends.by now ,i was bathing in His divine energy and felt like
laughing seeing my mother completely shocked...I also felt very
jealous,he had not given me anything!!finally,he said,"bada wala dey
do!"give me the big money"...my mom hesitated and got more
annoyed,because she had kept 500 rupees for the shirdi sai mandir.then
,as if he read her thoughts,he said "isko dey do" and flashed a huge
pendant with shirdi sai's photo in it!my mother surrendered.she said
in her mind,shirdi sai i am giving it to you.he told her,"gussa say
math dena!!"[dont give angrily!]

then ,He asked for water.My mother immediately rushed into our
apartment to get water,and she told me later that she had an inner
guidance to get clean water,not fridge water.she went to the shridi
sai photo on her bedroom water and touched His feet with her hands.
since she was taking a long time,I was standing all alone with God.I
was looking elsewhere,since it wouldnt be nice to stare at Him.He
suddenly asked me,in Hindi,are you married??i felt it was very naughty
of Him.so in my mind I looked at Him and said,why are you asking
baba?you know im not married!!he smiled gently,but it looked very
naughty to me.then i said,no,im not married.he said,are you studying?i
said,yes,[since i was doinga diploma in computers at the time] then he
said,"pass ho jaoge"[you will pass].i was very happy.in my mind i was
exclaiming "oh lord of the universe!" because i could see great energy
pouring from Him.

meanwhile,a young girl from our apartment called me from behind.i
recognised her and asked her about her mother[since her mom wasnt
feeling well] she said she is alright.their family happened to be
shirdi sai devotees!!she asked me,who is this man? he looks exactly
like shirdi sai!!i was shocked because i was getting really
confused,the whole thing seemed like a dream,yet it was happening in
front of my own eyes!

then,my mom came with the water.he drank it and my mom said,she never
saw the water flow into his mouth,it just seemed to disappear.he
returned the glass and then he turned to me.he said,whatever I say
comes true,never doubt my words,in hindi.then he bent down,picked up
a small stone and asked me to spread my palms.i did so,he said,jai
bolo shankar bhagawan ki! it turned into the most beautiful seed that
I ,or anyone else ,has ever seen.it was blood red,and i recognised it
was a mayflower seed.his parting words,he told us to keep these
creations safely with us always ,especially while travelling.he took
the big shirdi sai pendant and blessed all 3 of us on the forehead.he
walked into the road,and must have disappeared.my brother had baba's
darshan from our apartment,as he was having a severe back pain that
day.thus ended our glorious meeting with dearest baba.thanking you,neeti.
]]> Neetz http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/a-wondrous-experience-2211/ http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/my-letter-to-the-editor-2167/ Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:16:03 GMT hello dears!

well,I just posted a letter to the editor of Outlook magazine...there is an article in the latest outlook that I bought today,on how africans and north east 'chinkies' feel humiliated and victims of racism,saying that Indians are themselves racist,why call the aussies racist then?

This was my reply,hope you have good laughs reading,I just wanted to share with you all...here goes...:rotfl

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Reading 'Our True Colours' verily made me laugh out in pity..No one seems to understand that Indians are narrow-minded to the maximum,when it comes to anything under the sun.The foreigners and afro-Americans need not worry or lose heart,since Indians are biased about every single thing,not just skin colour.It is because everyone has an inferiority complex in this country,since everyone goes through a childhood where they learn that certain things are acceptable and received well in society,while others aren't.

For instance,just to mention the few popular ones,there are some people who will bother to talk to you after scanning you from top to toe,gauging how much gold is worn,what kind of silk- saree is worn.If their requirements and certain mental calculations are met,and visibly satisfied,they proceed to talk...but about what?Most probably about their children,their high level of educations,going to the best schools and colleges.what is the nature of the family to which the newly wed has gone? are they rich enough?!!

then comes the positive repulsion that people feel for those who are obese.I am obese,but due to a good height,it is all camouflaged and I look quite pretty and voluptuous...so,hoping and praying that no one will notice my 'tyres',I walk into this crappy shop by chance,and two north indian positively ****ty looking thin undernourished young guys are like 'moti size nahi milega..'then proceed to barely contain their smiles to each other.i certainly would have preferred if they said large size.mentally cursing them,feeling really bad,I buy something and leave..:drowning

anyone looking fat and walking on our roads, will have it.

then come the so-called 'chinkies'.believe me,I have never felt biased towards anyone in these ways...but here in my city,Mangalore,they face the same discrimination as anywhere else in India,basically because they don't look Indian.by Indian is meant,everything except north east..because they wear tight and revealing clothing,they are taken as prostitutes.I know that there are so many whores in Mangalore and all over India,who constantly sleep around,but their dark ways are concealed by beautiful and colourful salwars and dupattas..:bonk

I am not perfect either,and even though I know it is wrong,I cannot imagine or accept myself even a shade darker than I am.Right now,in my room,I have 1 sunscreen lotion,2 fairness-cum-sunscreen lotions,1 fairness cream for face only,2 fairness creams,and 1 fairness lotion!though I love people as they are,I wouldn't care even if limbs were missing or the face was disfigured,I could never accept myself being darker!I love my fair skin,to be honest,I feel proud and vain too..

Indian youngsters,girls and boys are so stupid,they are neither here nor there.They buy and wear Jeans,because they are slim and look good in it,but that's the only reason they know of.But from the way they walk,their body language,they are pucca conservative traditional indians.It is common for many to wear a bindi,bangles,pigtails ,oiled hair even!alongside the hottest tops and jeans!!ooooh...la..la...who are they kidding?not me.:biglaugh ]]> Neetz http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/my-letter-to-the-editor-2167/ http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/believe-in-yourself-one-hundred-2053/ Sat, 06 Jun 2009 06:09:14 GMT dear all,Hi!

do you know the power of believing in yourself,one hundred %?just sit back ,close your eyes,and tell yourself,"I believe in myself 100% regardless of what has happened in the past,and i never will give this habit up.I believe in myself for ever."

keep repeating this in your mind.This process has unlimited power,because ,when you believe in yourself,you are believing in the Atma,which is none else,but the Almighty God.literally,belief in Oneself comes way before believing In God,even.

just imagine,you believe in God,but you dont believe in yourself!then can God help you? no one can help and this is a fact.

when you start believing in this almighty and all powerful Atma within,the outer world changes.everything will start working in your favour,outside,and endless miracles will start taking place.if you believe in Your Atma,do you think it will let you down?

this is a most powerful process ,which will release the unlimited divine energy.try it,and also finish with affirming that this belief is for the greater Glory of God,and your belief in your chosen God will rise to greatest heights!

see how your life turns towards success and every blessing imaginable.these will be the blessing of the God within.all love and light,Neeti. ]]> Neetz http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/believe-in-yourself-one-hundred-2053/ http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/self-love-for-advanced-healing-1971/ Mon, 25 May 2009 13:40:23 GMT hello! Self- Love is perhaps the most effective method of healing ourselves,and for the health of both mind and body. when we direct heart-felt love to ourselves,it is most healing.obesity and other major problems can be healed this way.every disease is due to lack of love,everyone craves for... hello!

Self- Love is perhaps the most effective method of healing ourselves,and for the health of both mind and body.

when we direct heart-felt love to ourselves,it is most healing.obesity and other major problems can be healed this way.every disease is due to lack of love,everyone craves for Love,but cannot find it,most often,in the outer world.

One way to initiate the process of healing is to know for sure that God loves us infinitely and unconditionally.the next step would be not just to affirm,but to say to ourself,with full sincerity,I love "your own name' very much...it is also beneficial to keep repeating this,since this loosens up the stress in our body and mind.we might usually feel much relief from tension,and we can follow it up by lying down and relaxing.

what actually happens is that,in life,when people ignore you or insult you,you feel they are indirectly saying,"I dont love you,because you are like this"...and this gives way to our own rejection and even hatred of our own selves.this in turn leads to higher stress levels.we begin to 'not like 'ourselves and we cant accept ourselves.this can create a lot of problems to body and mind.when we make mistakes ,and there is someone who either points it out regularly,or maybe you feel ashamed that it happened,it is another feeling of non-love.You lose your self-respect,self-esteem,and the self- love gets blocked.

you can finish off the process with a loving hug or embrace to yourself.keep repeating and loving yourself,whenever you have time,through out the day.the relief you feel will give ample evidence. ]]> Neetz http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/self-love-for-advanced-healing-1971/ http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/what-ails-indians-1962/ Sun, 24 May 2009 10:18:04 GMT Indian people should understand what merit it takes to be born and live in this most spiritual country India,which is also the greatest country in the world since time immemorial. The key for progress of the people of India,is for all of us to develop self-confidence,i.e., confidence in the... Indian people should understand what merit it takes to be born and live in this most spiritual country India,which is also the greatest country in the world since time immemorial.

The key for progress of the people of India,is for all of us to develop self-confidence,i.e., confidence in the God/atma within.This atma has the infinite power to transform our entire lives and existences and transmute us into extraordinary beings,and we could achieve so much more than we can imagine now.our atma is the greatest powerhouse,and believing in our selves activates all the powers for our benefit.This is the message for all Indians,young and old.unless we have confidence in ourselves,we could never possibly have faith in God.

God is the highest power and creator of this material universe,He could make this whole circus disappear by mere willing.And it is only God who can shower the blessings of peace,prosperity and happiness to the world and all its nations.India is one country with the vastest spiritual powers and Indians are basically like the elephant which is unaware of its own strength.

India has so many unique and different states filled with highly intelligent,capable and great people.but where is the unity? this is the second important point.we need to unite,work hard and see the rich harvest and progress of a prosperous India.And this unity would be the ideal way to show our patriotic love for our motherland India,who is crying out for her children,who seem to have lost their character as days pass by.we have also failed in recent times, to practice non-violence,which is essentially the life-breath of Indians.

we seem to be content aping western culture which should not be done,and we are neither here nor there,due to our dismal behaviour and choices.We do not seem to understand that we are unique and can win lasting fame only by sticking to our age-old spiritual ideals.Today,the trend seems to be the never-ending quest for material success.there should be a harmonious blend of spirituality and materialism,and the main course of action would be to get rid of whatever is harmful to self or others.

meat-eating,intoxicants like alcohol,cigarette smoking and sexual activities outside marriage,are positively harmful and sinful,it does not require much to understand these facts.

It is for the Indians to develop these two,self-confidence and unity.India will prosper and be back to its most exalted and rightful place in the world,only if such acts of moral nature are undertaken. ]]> Neetz http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/neetz/what-ails-indians-1962/