 | Posted 30th August 2009 at 11:41 PM by Chitvish (My Twilight Thoughts, posted on Alternate Mondays.)
Why is worrying considered a female attribute? Or Is it really true?? The line that separates worry and anxiety is very thin! We do worry about small things like, children not doing well academically, husband returning from office very late on any particular day without keeping us informed about it etc. But, ultimately it is the mental make up of the individual woman which decides her attitude. Generally, men do...
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 | | Posted 3rd August 2009 at 01:04 AM by Chitvish (My Twilight Thoughts, posted on Alternate Mondays.)
Conflict arises only when we have two opposing, and apparently incompatible ideas! So, in its most basic form conflict arises only from conscious choice! The only explanation you ever need for doing what you want is: “This is my choice”. If so, conflict does not arise. People who love you will understand. People who do not, will not!! You need not bother to convince anyone of anything. You are answerable only to yourself for your choice. Do not entertain...
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| | Posted 20th July 2009 at 12:11 AM by Chitvish (My Twilight Thoughts, posted on Alternate Mondays.)
We all know that though we are far from perfect, we love to pretend that we are the epitome of perfection! Anyone who knows us also knows that we are not. Perfection is an attribute of the Divine and it is not given to humans! When we are kids, we imagine that we can grow up perfect – but nothing can be far from truth. In our childhood, parents are protective of us, which makes us think, they are perfect. As we grow up, we realise that they are also human and their imperfection...
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| | Posted 5th July 2009 at 11:36 PM by Chitvish (My Twilight Thoughts, posted on Alternate Mondays.)
The most wonderful divine law in life is, whatever you give to others, comes back to you manifold. This is most true of knowledge. You become more knowledgeable by sharing your knowledge. It is strange to see some people not sharing the vital information for fear of the others gaining an edge over themselves! But, what is the need for such a fear?? Is there not pleasure in sharing? By giving happiness to others, we become happier. By giving money to others, we...
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| | Posted 21st June 2009 at 10:38 PM by Chitvish (My Twilight Thoughts, posted on Alternate Mondays.)
Very often, when the situation warrants a ‘no’ for an answer from us, do we say that boldly? Rarely!! We must be confident, straight forward and courageous enough to say that, without hesitation as well. A ‘no’ can save us from a lot of unpleasantness. We do tend to get carried away by others’ influence. If we are right, our commitment to our belief should be strong enough to withstand even the most severe opposition. There is no need to offer a lengthy justification for our...
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