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Here I am bloggin my thoughts, ideas, journals and ofcourse my inevitable ramblings. Greatly appreciate you'll stopping by and add comments if you will. See ya!
Multitasking she is
Posted 22nd January 2008 at 05:35 PM by Anandchitra
She was an old maid who lived opposite my house. She also did our household chores like washing clothes and cleaning the house, vessels etc. Her day used to start at 4 a.m. My grandmother used to tell me she could hear her rolling her pots around and getting ready to take bath before which she used to sweep the front of her house and spray cowdung and water mixture by hand. Her small house bordered the road so she had enough light from the street. By 5 a.m. she would have opened her small shed by the side of her house and started making hot idlis and sambhar. By then she would be getting her steady stream of regular customers. This would go on until 8 or so. By then she would start winding up her idli stall and closeup shop. Then she would start making the rounds of houses to do cleaning chores. She would only accept coffee. Her tall thin frame would be bent over by the weight of her work and her face would have so many wrinkles it was difficult to tell her age. She would finish her round and go back to her house to start the lunch stall. She would then get very busy. She had to cook and serve customers (who mainly sat around her or on small benches) and she would have to fetch water and collect the money and continue cooking and serving. All a one woman job. Enough said about the clean up which was a very big job in itself. Meanwhile her evenings were spent getting vegetables, collecting water in all her pots and more cleaning. She even managed a trip to our nearby temple. And as night came in we could hear her move stuff around in the house and in the back where she had an asbestos sheet shed. She would then wind up for the day to get ready for her next dawn. That was a day in the life of Lakshmi. She was definetly multitasking, a word i was not familiar with back then. Looking back it seems to me our women have forever been multitasking.
Though I am not in her league I still have to do more than one task. When I would be busy cooking our evening meal, with atleast 2 pots simmering at the same time, if dh want screwdriver who do you think he would turn to?? And then the ruler, the tape, the screws, the torchlight and above all "come and hold this up"..line.. Have to drop everything as is to run.. Or the morning rush as where is my sock? or where is my lunch bag? ..
Maybe multi tasking is just a new name for what we women have and still are doing.. What do you think?
Though I am not in her league I still have to do more than one task. When I would be busy cooking our evening meal, with atleast 2 pots simmering at the same time, if dh want screwdriver who do you think he would turn to?? And then the ruler, the tape, the screws, the torchlight and above all "come and hold this up"..line.. Have to drop everything as is to run.. Or the morning rush as where is my sock? or where is my lunch bag? ..
Maybe multi tasking is just a new name for what we women have and still are doing.. What do you think?
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| | very true, these are the active years and let me tell you woman are very active with DH around, otherwise they loose the interest to cook or keep in shape or the house nothing is of great interest after that, so they should understand the importance of briskness that the body has without being provoked to be so. the demands are many in these active years, we as woman would love to do so many things at the same time we want everything in its place. even now priya says, what happened to you mom? where is that personality who used to demand all in its place and so on, so when we are the queens we love everything in its place and get things done much better than depending on others to get this done. like the cut flowers i love them once a week, but now only when the mood is there, and many other small little things..nice write up and hats off to lakshmi, wish i had that energy now, yes i am getting a lot greedy i must say..sunkan |
Posted 22nd January 2008 at 08:17 PM by sunkan Updated 22nd January 2008 at 08:19 PM by sunkan |
| | I am not going to believe most of what you say dear Sundari..pl. forgive me for that..You are among the active ladies i know..you post in so many different forums on so many varied topics..u also blog on juicy topics..and have a family to lend ear too..so thats why i have to disagree..But you are so right about the dh part.. When my husband has to travel to china and i drop him off at the airport, a huge part of me leaves with him..its so difficult to explain i can see a part of going away too..then till he comes back i have to survive so will be hanging in there..keep blogin you multi tasking woman !!!!! |
Posted 22nd January 2008 at 08:35 PM by Anandchitra |
| | Dear AC, There you are again with a great blog!!! Hats off to Lakshmi. While we with all the facilites cannot stay in shape they do it effortlessly, that is one thing I admire about these women, though they are a struggling lot they do so much with ease. Iam like you AC, day starts very early and sometimes Iam dead on my feet before evening. Having two young children, life is always moving in the fast lane.Enjoying it very much!!! |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 12:31 AM by Jananikrithsan |
| | Dear AC, It is accepted even by one of the management magnate in Vijay TV "Neeya Naana" programme that women are outstanding in mutitasking compared to men. I believe it is an inborn quality of women. Love. PS |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 01:54 AM by Pushpavalli Srinivasan |
| | AC, Women have an inbuilt, inherent quality of multitasking.. that is why more and more women are being accepted for hr and management positions...I never gave much thought to it...but sitting and analyzing...i am also one..though now we have better technology to help us along...... |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 03:39 AM by Shanvy |
| | Dear AC, Great Blog.... Nowadays, I get up early in the morning, I myself switch on the geaser, do self cooking, cleaning the house, washing the clothes, etc. etc. Necessacity is the mother of all innovations.... It is not women or men... even you can see, teenage kids doing part time jobs for their studies and all... In this case, this lady has to do that for her survival... On the contrary, if she was given the choice not to do that work, but her food and day to day requirements are taken care.... then will she be doing the multi task.... The same goes to your DH... or for that matter any person... why do they ask for help.... because they know somebody is there to help... If nobody is there then they will be doing on their own.... Multi tasking has come into the corporate world why?????? Not because to improve the efficiency... It is a indirect way of giving a pep talk to people and reduce the cost..... When I was working in India.... One fine day, my Dept was cut down from 12 person to 5 person over night.... With the concept of multi tasking etc etc.... But at the end of the day we compromise on lot of things.... Being a Ashtavadhani is great.... But multi tasking??????? Disclaimer: - Sorry.... This is my absolute personal opinion / views / experience.... This is not to hurt anybody or to demean their capabilities.... |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 04:53 AM by Vysan |
| | dear ac, now a days woman are built their own. they can do multitasking.eg.office going ladies, they manage themselves, and her husband and childrendand inlaws. this is also a multitasking. i am a house wife. i wake up at 7.ooam.and i am going to bed at 12.oopm. full day i am busy with my schdule. all ladies are best in their own ways. but i cant say i will be dothe same thing in my old age. like lakshmi. hats off to lakshmi. nice blog ac. |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 05:17 AM by vijeta |
| | While we with all the facilites cannot stay in shape they do it effortlessly, that is one thing I admire about these women..these words by you dear Janani love it..You said right dear.. They still do so to and with 2 small children I can imagine.. |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 06:20 AM by Anandchitra |
| | Nice blog. I am a working women and feel stressed out at the end of the day.This is because work at home and office is a very difficult thing to manage when u literally do not get help from your better half. Evern i love doing everything for him and still sometimes lose temper as my body stops the mind saying enough, i cannot do it anymore for the day. Regards Sri |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 07:18 AM by srivatsa |
| | You have "DARED" tosay in open forum that women are outstanding in multi tasking compared to men..dearest Pushpavalli..hmm..food for thought.. dont you think.. Is that why over so many generations we were kept subdued and learnt to become submissive ?? |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 10:02 AM by Anandchitra |
| | I knew you were one even not having met you dearmost Shanthi.. Ofcourse you are....you are managing children and fil and household almost single handedly and running the whole show during Veda's absence..Trust me I know how much more of a mental and physical effort that takes..You are more than multi tasking woman..Now I should figure out a way to make it up to Veda.. hehehe.. |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 10:09 AM by Anandchitra |
| | For the house wife the work never ends dear Vijeta.. Once we get up and get started it just goes on ..something or other..i am fortunate to have an understanding dh who knows how much i have to do.. Also this person was a real person.. I still remember her face vividly and all that she had to do.. The neat thing is she just went about doing her work..thanks for stepping in.. |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 11:06 AM by Anandchitra |
| | Dear AC, That was more like a tribute to this Lakshmi and so many like them in India. I actually miss them and their casual approach to life....they worked so hard but made it appear as if it is a duty and nothing can be done abt it and so why not be happy with it.....it was amazing to watch these people. And it reminds of those days when i had a performance, but would always worry abt getting back home to cook or serve family.....my friends and teacher used to laugh and make jokes "Sudha is worrying if she has switched off her cooker!" But gone are those days when i could easily perform a 2 hours program and get back to normal family life......hmm, wish i had that energy and Figure too! ha ha..........Hats off to our generation of multitasking women! ![]() |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 01:14 PM by sudhavnarasimhan |
| | You took me a long long way back to my younger days Chitra! In writing about Lakshmi, I had to think of the various Lakshmis that worked for my mom over the years. No matter what their names were, my mom called them 'Lakshmi'! Amongst them, there surely was one or two who could be compared to your Lakshmi here :) You are right, we women have been multitasking since ages....and it seems to go on. Besides becoming aware of our multitasking busy life, this Lakshmi also brings back many interesting memories to my mind. Everytime we went to India for vacations, my daughters would first befriend the 'Lakshmi' presently working for their grandma. They used to take colorful photos of them and even would accompany them to their housings. It would fascinate them no end. They would then related their personal stories to me, about which I was ignorant for the most part. One thing though, these women were really liberated! They would be married three or four times (!) having kids from various partners, their husbands would be mostly wayward, drunkards or useless guys! They would drink if they felt like it or smoke. It was then that I came to the conclusion that my western friends and these women were in the same league, so also the upper crust of our society. It is us, the middleclass of India who had to deal with all the social norms, taboos and maintain appearances! Well, sorry for deviating, but these are the thoughts that rushed to my mind... Enjoyed reading about your Lakshmi. You write well, Anandchitra :) |
Posted 23rd January 2008 at 01:16 PM by Kamla |
| | It is a tribute to Lakshmi and so many others like her..dear Sudha..I enjoyed reading your post..They do have a very casual approach to life. And they do work very very hard. I do think of them atleast once a day when I feel am not doing as much as ican. Could you please share with me what performance.. Also I am like you in the worrying about switching off cooker???.. |
Posted 24th January 2008 at 08:18 AM by Anandchitra |
| | Great Reply Post..Veda..First Hats Off for your multitasking capabilities.. really astounding..see what necessity does to you..I also never thought of it in the corporate world like that..very nice.. Hope you didnt read my reply to Shan..hehehe..Thanks Veda.. |
Posted 24th January 2008 at 03:51 PM by Anandchitra |
| | multitaskingHi Anandchitra, Nice little story about the old woman. I could almost see her working. I'm amazed at how many houses one maid can clean and how quickly she does it in addition to taking care of her own house. Maids are such hardworking people. Everyone needs to multitask these days, especially working moms with small kids. In the morning, I have to get 3 luncboxes ready in addition to the constant demands of my 2 year old and make sure my 10 year old has done her homework, packed her bag including after school activities etc. After work, while multitasking with clean up chores, bathing the 2 year old amidst my 10 year old telling me how her day went, hmework, preparing dinner etc., it seems like without multitasking, we can never get things done on time Happy Multitasking! Lata |
Posted 24th January 2008 at 06:38 PM by srilata.t |
| | Hi Chitra I hv just saw yr bolg Multitasking! Its really gr8. Its true Women r Multitasking! Multitasking! Multitasking! Ya really I am inspired with this. Grt job n all the best. M S Lakshmi |
Posted 24th January 2008 at 07:31 PM by mslakshmi |
| | Hi Chitra Pl let me know how to start a Blog. I am little confused. I want to know more about this Indusladies n want to use all the corners. pls help me. M S Lakshmi |
Posted 24th January 2008 at 07:33 PM by mslakshmi |
| | Hats off to you too Dear latha..wow you are truly multi tasking..keep blogin.. |
Posted 24th January 2008 at 08:54 PM by Anandchitra |
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