Dear friends
I have written this here......many of our freinds are doing this for many years...like shanvy, rajmi etc.............so , iam not only the person......doing all this...........BUT I FEEL WE HAVE TO SHARE ALL THESE THINGS.........we can always share good things..na ........
thank you for ur feed back...........SERVICE TO HUMANITY IS SERVICE TO GOD..........and iam saying all this NOT TO TALK PROUD ABT ME OR TO SAY I DID THIS AND THAT.............pls dont mistake me ..take itin correct sense........
My family is the main reason for that...........its in my blood...........from the childhood days.....i have an urge to do something for the poor and for the society also........i will be popular wherever i go............my school /college in my area..........in all places........since I USED TO HELP OTHERS FOR ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING TO MY LEVEL BEST........till this date i have never said NO.I CANT HELP " for anybody......(...iam not saying ........ i wil do anything, asked to me..........to some extent..i will do that..........but at the same time........i wont keep quiet without doing ahything.........) people come to me with confidence that " somehow i will try to help them.........in any way".........ours is big family and well to do also..........SO I USE ....YES REALLY USE ALL MY RELATIVES FOR ALL THIS..........and i keep in touch with all friends and relatives...........make very good realtionship with them................so that THEY WILL BE READY TO DO ANYTHING FOR ME.............
Like, we used to sponsor( all my cousins are doing ths regualry) for a child's EDUCATION every year.........
We will help our relative for their daughter's wedding..............( all of us will contribute either as materials or cash or jewelry or anything needed for them).............LIKE THIS I MYSELF HAV ORGANISED TWO WEDDINGS AND LOT OF SMALL FUNCTIONS .....BELEIVE ME...........
all this come to me seeing my elders..........THEY ARE MY INSPIRATION...........my amma , appa, thatha, athai. chgittapa and all.........let me






. them............at this time..........
My uncle used to say...........I DONT BELEIVE IN AMAVASAI THARPANAM OR SOME OTHER PUJA / RITUALS / FUNCTIONS SPENDING LOT OF MONEY IN THAT..............but U HAVE TO SEE ONE THING THERE...............ANOTHER POOR GUY IS GETTING MOENY OUT OF IT.......so we shld not stop that........indireclty we are helping others by our functions.........
So , i want krishna to follow my elders...............i want him to see the other side of life....
and i want him to learn....... the HABIT OF SHARING / HELPING ........FROM THE CHILDHOOD.....