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Old 7th March 2008, 10:51 PM
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The Mamma's Boy
This guy probably lives with his mother, if not close enough for her to pop in for tea (every night). She will have helped him pick out his decor and there will be photos of her all over his apartment. He will have several cartons of homemade meals in the refrigerator that mom made for him.
Why you should stay away: You will never live up to his mother and although he will love and cherish you forever he will take his mother's side every time.
How to get rid of him: Tell him you don't like his mother.
The Body Builder
This guy will have photos of himself on every available space, along with his own home gym (even though he has a life time membership at the swanky one in town). He has all the latest gadgets and home entertainment systems.
Why you should stay away: You will never see him as he is always down at the gym. He will spend more time in the bathroom then you. He collects trophies and likes one hanging off his arm.
How to get rid of him: Tell him to give up the gym for you.
The Womanizer
This guy will treat you like a princess and is the perfect lover. He dresses well and is out to impress and impress he will (every woman he comes in contact with). He will, of course, have trouble remembering your name, with all the women he has on the go. The list is endless.

Why You should stay away: His excuses for not showing up are getting more pathetic. You will have to compete with his phone as he has so many calls to return and text messages to answer.
How to get rid of him: Tell him, "I use to be a man."
The Workaholic
This man is going places, but will he be taking you with him? He is smartly dressed, has great taste in decor and eats at the finest restaurants. However, his work will always come first.
Why you should stay away: You have to make an appointment to see him. He will take you to elegant dinner parties then leave you with strangers while he talks shop.
How to get rid of him: Tell him, "I’m taking a year off to travel. Do you want to come?"
Your College Lecturer
He is probably older than you, more worldly and gets you a good grade.
Why you should stay away: If anyone found out about you, they would say you slept your way to better grades. Plus, he would lose his job and possibly his teaching position.
How to get rid of him: Tell him somebody is blackmailing you and if you don’t stop seeing him, they are going to report you.
Of course, there are exceptions. For example, if "the body builder" knows how to give you the same type of attention he gives his body then this could potentially be a good thing (as long as you can handle other women trying to pick up on him). And if you are a workaholic that has no plans of changing then being in a relationship with another workaholic will allow the two of you to focus more on your careers while hopefully having some focus left for each other. If "mamma's boy" mom loves you and you can get the same focus from the man as his mom gives then just maybe... it's a stretch. Remember, it's doubtful any of these men will change so it's best not to try and change them.
A good approach to take in wanting out of one of these relationships is to be honest. This may gain more respect. Tell "mamma's boy" that he's too focused on his mom. Tell the womanizer that you only have room in your life for a man that only has room for you. It's doubtful that they'll change, but at least they'll know the real reason you don't want to pursue a relationship.

The Alcoholic

He has his own world and theories which is beyond others, he is so guilt ridden and depressed most times, excuses are his great rudiments in life. I am not aware if he can make you happy but he can run u down with guilt so much you would not want to see life with a smile ever. To live with him would be entertaining adjustment only from your side all the time.

he can make it so miserable even his children will start detesting the home to come back too and a definite ground for a broken home as base for the kids..

why you should stay away from him?. Your life will also go into alchohol that is evaporate like it.

How to get rid of him: Tell him nothing just throw him out…






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Dear Sunkan,

Who else to look for?????.....

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Dear Sunkan
Instead of this, if you had written about 'Six men that all women would love to date', it would have been helpful for the uninitiated like me!
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Dear Sunkan
Instead of this, if you had written about 'Six men that all women would love to date', it would have been helpful for the uninitiated like me!
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dear sri,
atlast got u to write somewhere here at least now u better circulate. for that matter why dont you guide with your male opinion this is very much needed here, as u will notice the first five were suggested by my friend manohar but the last one is by me, so the last speaks a lot from the fb i have received so far in other places...even in the 5 listing somebody fall short, u get me who, u r welcome to write about who to date as an experienced man in life, father figure, man figure, elderly figure anything we want is the essence of all your life experiences put together...thanku for being here..sunkan
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Who else to look for?????.....

Veda
the question is open veda,
start here, and advise u also have a charu at home what would u advice her, whom to select now it is no more ur field or mine only guidance so pl join instead of questioning me...sunkan
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