Is ur DH will share his feelings with u.

hi friends,
i have small confussion,
let me share with u all
is ur DH will share his feelings with u. what i mean is, he will share about all the matters. actually my feeling is my husband is very less talkative.
i am very opp. than my husband. i will share what happens daily from morning to evening. but he won't share. when i was in moody. then he will talk so much. im not even like that.
is every husband like that, is every wife like that.
please share ur valuable comments.
This is not a serious problem but i thought in my mind that i share with u all.
thanks u.

Neelu first of all let me tell u one thing ...for this type of issues we have subform in IL relationship with inlaws etc ...u can post u r quiery there...

and my views for u r question....chala varaku pair lo okaru takative ayithe okaru calm....nenu anthe i am full talkative but my DH bit reseved....nothing to take serious anukunta...mere melli melli ga mee DH ni change cheyatam better..epudu house lively ga vunchandi so that everything will be perfectly alright

hi supraja,
thankyou very much for ur comment.

Hello Neelima garu,

How are you? I think you have posted this thread in wrong place.
It should be in other sun forum - me,Spouse-MIL.

Anyway coming to the point

I think this is very common problem in most of the families.
Okallu emotional ga baaga attach avuthoo vuntaaru, inkokakallu opposite ga vuntaaru. Maa intlo nenu talkative maa DH antha ekkuva ga maatladadu.
Naaku meeku laane morning nundi evining varaku emaindo anni cheppalani vuntundi, vinaalani vuntundi. kaani avvadu.

Think their point of veiw also, May mee husband office lo baaga tire ayyi vasthunnaremo, konchem space kaavalanukuntunnaremo.

Okasaari mee feelings mee DH ki cheppi choodandi, vinnara.. ok, ledante
meeru vere panullo engage avvandi. meeku elaagu embroidery, and other works lo intrest vundi kada. andullo busy ga vundandi. pillalatho inka baaga kaalakshepam. Friend circle ni spread chesukondi. you share ur feelings with them. Appudu meeku ee vishaym antha pedda issue laa anipinchadu.

All the best

Cheers
BHA

naaku idi pedda issue kaadu just andaru DH's ilane vuntara ani ante.
nenu meeru annattu yeppu busy ga vuntanu.
thanks for ur reply.

Hi Neelu,

Very interesting query of yours !!!
I am just like u - very talkative and my DH is just the opposite.
He will make the right comments where necessary.
The moment I open the door for him in the evening then I pour out all that had happened since he left in the morning.
Some day if I am pre-occupied and just open the door and let him in, he would wait for 5 min. and then ask "Why aren't you vomitting?"
It is no serious problem just the way they are !!!!

Originally Posted by neeluravi77

naaku idi pedda issue kaadu just andaru DH's ilane vuntara ani ante.
nenu meeru annattu yeppu busy ga vuntanu.
thanks for ur reply.

Then thats fine...
Maximum DH alaane vuntaaru ani naa abhipraayam.
Mari chooddam, migilina ladies replies kooda choosi.

BHA

why they behave like that. sometime i am very angry with that.

Neeluravi,
Let me put my 2cents here.
Most of the couples face the same problem(?)
Guys even when they are considered chatterboxes to outsiders talk less with their spouses.
Reason from a guy's perspective:They are more interested in cosying up with wife than waste time talking to her
Only time a guy speaks a lot is while going on a long drive .Try it if you want your guy to talk endlessly
Hope i haven't offended you with my suggestions.
vijji

thanks u for your suggestion viji.