one of my friend want to adopt a child.. They thought they could find a child in an year and were waiting.. Could not get a child.. can anyone suggest fastest way to get a child thanks KRS
Ha instead of adopt u can ask her to do sarogacy or IVF. If adoption is compalsary u can consult any orphans. They are many orphan. My opinion is that u 'r wish Adapted people won't be like our child . so sarogacy r ivf is better.
it would never be an immediate process visit your local orphanages, after choosing a kid , you have to follow some legal procedure which was different from your state. so better contact an orphanage first they will let you know the correct procedure.
attitude? i'm not showing any attitude amma. just think . i tooo like kids very much. i'm waiting for it. its not a attitude its suggetions. i'm not critisizing or anything sorry fpr that.
Hi, I heard that now you will have to register in CARA online directly.Ask them to visit the website and read the procedure and then register there and they should also scan and upload the required documents there itself.. once you register waiting period is between one year to two year.You cannot adopt urgently.No short cut method.
Hi Vani, I also felt bad reading your first fb.All children are gods gift. Adoption child will not be like our child ..... is a strong and wrong statement. Many people have adopted and they are happy and those children are showering lots of affection and attention to their parents. Surrogacy or adoption is their wish.But let us not use the words orphan or they are not like us etc. Just my opinion and unintentionally your words are hurting others.
sorry but i din't mean that orphan i meaNT ASHTAM anadha ashram ( orphanage ). thats all. i said that in future some problem will come thats i also have consern on orphans. if it is wrong i'm sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Its OK. You shared what you felt. You genuinely tried to help. All that they are trying to explain to you is that though you meant it in a good way, you might end up unintentionally hurting someone who is seeking help. Here, the OP has posted on her friend's behalf so its still OK. Someday when you yourself will become a mother, you will realize why everyone else here is reacting like that to your (in your view) simple, straightforward comment.